Tanking only reinforces the weak-sister, loser mentality that's devoloped over the last 3 seasons. Winning for the sake of winning pays its own dividends in terms of learning how to, especially the ugly ones that are a matter of gutting it out. This is especially important on a young team, and this team has an increasing number of young players dropped into this losing culture and obviously adopting it, which perpetuates it.
The D has been talked about and it's easy to focus on them, but where lack of mental toughness it's most obvious is the offense. Since Ward and D went down to injury they've failed miserably, doing nothing to raise their game. Where injuries on the defensive side force an adoption of "the best defense is a good offense", they've consistently blown. Almost all scoring has come from 1 line, and only 1 goal per game. Maintaining pressure and forcing the opponent to adjust and make mistakes you can exploit takes heat off your D and keeps your #2 and #3 goalies from being routinely molested, and 1 line can't do it all, all the time. For most of these recent losses in the last 10 games, turning them into wins as played would require they be 1-0 shutouts that even healthy, defensively-elite teams can't manage in bunches.
They need goals from the 2nd line and for the 3rd and 4th to at least get some garbage chances. They need to play like they own 2/3 of the ice, at least, and be agressive about it. It's easy to tell who's actually doing those extra things because it stands out so easily while they others are on their heels chasing most of the time vs every single team they've faced recently. Once upon a time the best thing they could say this season was they didn't lose after leading during the breaks, but that is over and has been for awhile. Now, not only can't they protect a lead, they deflate like a tired balloon when challenged and the idea that they could comeback to actually win is an one that doesn't mesh with the going-through-the-motions performance by too many on the ice. Those players aren't physically tough, and the are mentally weak. That makes this team glory-fodder, the kind others make comebacks against.
A slightly higher draft pick won't fix what ails this team, because it's been ailing since last season, and the one before that, and the one before that. They need to win every game they can eke out instead of being comfortable all summer how they lost...again.