It is the world we live in. People are constantly "outraged" about every little thing that occurs in their life. Why would their favorite sports teams be any different? It is a waste of time to be outraged about things that are 100% out of your control.
The middle is always the safest place to be. Few people have the emotional intelligence to find the middle though.
I stopped writing for this site in the early/mid-2000s because having arguments about trivial things just got to be too much.
After 9/11, it was really hard for me argue with someone about whether a marginal prospect more likely projected as a potential third liner, or a fourth liner. My heart just wasn't in it anymore. When you knew people impacted by those attacks, it just wasn't enjoyable to debate Nils Ekman for hours a day.
I also admit that some of the events of recent years have continued to put life into perspective. I've spent a lot of time in children's hospitals as my son receives treatment for Leukemia (he's doing good, in maintenance and we're making progress toward the finish line).
But when you see a parent holding a two year child whose head looks like baseball from stitches and surgeries they've had in their young life, or you make eye contact with a parent who is coming to terms with the reality that their child is going to die, there's something that happens in the pit of your soul or humanity that is irreversibly changed.
I've heard that people with heroine addictions often struggle with the aftermath because it completely wrecks the body's ability to feel joy or euphoria --- creating a somewhat hollow and empty feeling that never really goes away.
Somewhat similarly, when you spend time with sick kids and their families, you find that it's really hard to get emotionally hung-up on things that ultimately aren't a big deal in this world. Yeah you still feel disappointment, frustration or anger --- that's part of being a fan. But it's hard to spend hours upon hours worked up and angry about things --- especially things that are fairly minor in their importance to the team or the sport.
Hockey is a great sport to share with your friends and family. The highs, the lows, the triumph and the agony. But it's a balance as well. Just like the players on the ice need to take a step back from time to time, we do as well.
And even if you're incredibly well-versed in the sport, whether you gravitate towards the data analysis, or North American prospects, or European leagues, there is something to be said for embracing the concept that “The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.”