That is all well in good but I think it is fairly clear that we do not play in an equitable league in that regard. For whatever reason, conspiracy or otherwise, we get a bad reputation when we try to play or even just simply respond to dirty plays.
We push back, we get penalized or suspended. Other teams push back, and it is usually fine.
It is also proven that having tough guys in the lineup really does nothing to prevent most dirty players from being dirty as well. If anything, they get riled up and play dirty even more. Or we get distracted by it.
I do agree we that we need guys who can play through it better though. Laugh it off, ignore it, or whatever. Stand up when you absolutely need to, which I think we do (as much as we can without having the book thrown at us all of the time anyways). At the end of the day, those bullies pay by playing through their BS and making them lose... Engaging with their antics is often exactly what they want.
I've watched Tavares, Matthews and Marner get manhandled and punched in the head during the playoffs and take it like a bunch of p***yes
It's the ******* playoffs, of course that sort of crap is going to be let go and everybody knows it because it happens every single year
You don't need to be an enforcer, McKinnon isn't a tough guy but he isn't taking **** from anybody
That's why when series get nasty and tough our guys disappear, if you aren't prepared to defend yourself nobody else is going to do the protecting for you at that time of the year