I think when people are saying the King's lack hunger, it has a direct correlation to Sutter, specifically his "take things level headed" mindset.
Look, it is a key to competition that you shouldn't over react to losses, and you should leave your emotions out of the equation. That keeps you even in play and stops you from over reacting. I have years of competitive experience, so I know this well. If you let losses hit you personally, your not going to get out of them quickly. the key to this mindset, however, is focusing on how you are doing, and focusing on doing well, no matter the outcome.
However, this lack of emotion, this belief that things will change, can also lead to something else: a sense of entitlement. And I think that's what the Kings have right now.
2012, what did we hear. "We're going to keep playing our best and see what happens." That is a mindset focuses on the process, on working hard despite actual outcome.
2014, what do we hear, ALL YEAR, when the Kings are playing badly, not scoring, etc.?
"We're just trying to get ready for playoffs." Brushing off the issue, expecting that things will be different in playoffs.
"We think we have the core here to win it again." Entitlement, expectation of going deep without a focus on the process.
"Pucks will go in eventually." Expectation of change, entitlement to goals, rather than process focused.
This team seems to have become complacent because they EXPECT that something will happen, and they will eventually magically rebound. The stats, numbers, everything says that should happen, but it doesn't happen magically. The Kings need to be critical of their play, mad about how far they have deviated from their game, get angry at the Sharks for handling them so well, and be ready to win tomorrow. The time for waiting is over. Tomorrow is a must win situation.
I think it will be good for this team to lose early though. Get a real taste of whats it like to not be a contender. Last year was easy enough to write off, "Oh we got to the WCF, thats pretty good." But a loss in the first round to a team which we have beaten all year, that will sting. And hopefully get the Kings to focus on playing well rather than playing average and hoping to win.
Also, the quotes were paraphrasing.