I think it's kind of relevant for many reasons. Just saw something on CBC a few minutes ago with Carcillo talking about it and other abuse in hockey. He said at 17 he hadn't been exposed to group sex but after going away for hockey it seemed to be very common (I believe he was saying consensual too).
If we don't hear about this, some posters here immediately assume any group/gang sex has to be a rape.
1) Tootoo/Carcillo and others shedding light on it can be helpful to explain what the culture is actually like...it may also explain the 2018 incident it and lend support that those situations are "common" and often consensual
2) there's a spectrum for these incidents or assaults too:
A) could be consensual like Carcillo/Tootoo are saying
B) it could be something like what 2018 may be, ie something that was consensual and became something else. Ie not meeting the newer definitions on consent (not being into it, not engaging, being silent, etc) vs older expectations of firmly saying no/stop/etc
C) or it could be something like they're saying for 2003 ... Which if they get that video and she was unconscious, these guys should be going to jail
I am sure they will be quick to tweet a trade as quickly as they can.
Odd that they're nearly all Christians.Sounds like young Canadian hockey players need Jesus.
(if you’ve ever been around young hockey players or played yourself, you already knew this)
Yes. And I don't believe 18/19 yos cycling through programs can maintain a culture of acting like this over time without active reinforcement/encouragement from older leaders (coaches, trainers, etc.) It's probably much worse than complicity.The program was complicit.
Anxious to hear coliacavo defend his teammates on first ip MondayIf your daughter was videotaped getting f**ked by 6 men on a pool table and not responding to it at all. What would you feel/do?
You say opportunistic. I say under scrutiny.At first I thought it meant 2003 born players, but no it says the 2003 WC. It seems incredibly opportunistic, given the timing of the other investigation and 19 years later.
What else is HC going to say after being under a microscope now?
Look at the language used. "Non-responsive". Wtf does that mean? Doesn't say unconscious or resisting or anything. That in and of itself means nothing. And a couple of teenage hockey players might not be the best judges of what they see on a tape when it comes to consent. Without seeing the video we know f*** all. Could it have happened, sure but right now you know absolutely nothing of value.
People combing through rosters "that guy might be a rapists" "hmm maybe that guy" at this stage is a f***ign joke.
I haven’t seen anyone on here suggesting this is isolated to Hockey.
Is it rampant, I don’t know but two incidents with Team Canada WJ certainly is more than problematic.
It's probably because this is the 7th or 8th incident in hockey.ive noticed it broadly applied, just the statement hockey has a culture problem - to me it throws the entire sport under the bus for having the same problems that exist everywhere. by all means call out and punish this stuff, i just dont like taking aim at the sport as a whole. and im not saying its people here, but social media and the media are, and that phrase was used here which was what i originally responded to/dont agree with
Funny enough, a couple years back, hockey was considered the game with less scandal of the top 4 league in North America. Little did we know...
Yes/no.
Is there a broad cultural problem where young men in a lot of situations need to be better prepared/educated to be empathetic to others in vulnerable situations? Yes.
Is this problem exacerbated when those young men have been away from home/parents for 2-3 years, have had their ego's boosted, are having their first experiences with alcohol, and have young women seemingly 'chasing' after them? Yes.
And note that nothing in the previous paragraph mentioned hockey. The same increased risk of young men not having proper guidance and oversight probably occurs in similar situations with any sport/youth activity whereby there is less supervision, +alcohol, +believe that you are above things, +++
The thing is, it doesn't matter if the issue exists outside of hockey. The remedy is better education and awareness of the harm that can be created. And if hockey...or any sport...is part of creating an environment where there is increased risk of SA, (away from home, ego/s, alcohol, availability) then yes, hockey has a culture problem, because they own the exacerbation part. You can't just say "well, we didn't start the fire so why are you mad that we poured gas on it"
It's a pretty clear line of though for me.
Would these exact same 18-19 year olds have taken part in what happened if not for hockey?
(not part of the WJ team, had not been away from home, had not had the availability that a gold medalist has, etc. etc.)
Maybe some would, but some wouldn't. And that's the hockey culture problem, the difference between someone that wouldn't without the part that hockey played.
Ya, I was going to say, these guys where so many crosses that I don't think Jesus being absent is the problem...perhaps his presence (more so churches) is part of the problem, with their history of sexual misconduct and cover up.Odd that they're nearly all Christians.
'We haven’t learned a damn thing': Sexual violence is embedded in junior hockey culture
Content warning: This story contains details about alleged sexual assault. The content may be difficult to read and emotionally upsetting. Multiple officials from Hockey Canada will be in Ottawa on Monday to testify in a Canadian parliamentary hearing in front of the Standing Committee on...theathletic.com
Glenn Canning has a simple question he asks whenever he hears a story involving gang rape.
“It’s always heartbreaking when you read about something that involves a lot of young men and there wasn’t one of them that recognized something was wrong. Where was that guy?” asks Canning.
It’s a question Canning started asking after his 17-year-old daughter, Rehtaeh Parsons, died following a suicide attempt in 2013. Parsons’ death came 17 months after her family said she was raped by four high school boys at a house party in Nova Scotia. The boys took photos as the assault was happening and then circulated them among their peers, leading to months of Parsons being cyberbullied. Though it is not a hockey story, it is perhaps the most infamous gang rape case in Canada. The crown prosecutor initially declined to prosecute the case, but police reopened the case in 2013 and convicted two of her assailants on child pornography charges for disseminating photos of Parsons. Neither served jail time. An independent review of the police and prosecution response to the case found errors were made by both law enforcement and the provincial prosecution service.
Canning speaks at high schools across Canada, sharing Rehtaeh’s story as a cautionary tale about consent, sexual assault and social media.
“I always think if you can just change one guy in every group of guys you can go a long way,” said Canning. “Just to have someone say, “This is wrong. And this person needs my protection. And that’s my role.”
Yes. And I don't believe 18/19 yos cycling through programs can maintain a culture of acting like this over time without active reinforcement/encouragement from older leaders (coaches, trainers, etc.) It's probably much worse than complicity.
This is the same with policing in Canada. How many police have parents who were police? How many 40 year career police officers become Chiefs of Police? Who expects culture change with such realities?
I recall just three or four years ago they named a new chief of a major police force in Ontario who was apparently going to help their force evolve to the present day. It was an odd choice, considering this guy first joined the police force in the 1960s. Yeah, that's a guy you look to for culture change. Ditto for hockey.
The game has had (now former) TV personalities who had been on TV for decades, many of my generation raised on his influence. I'm old enough to hear such endearing terms against French and European player who wore visors or openly disputing former NHL fighters who had concerns about their health etc.
How does a game, meh, a nation evolve if it remains dedicated to promoting those with particular attitudes?
You can’t be serious with this??? NBA and NFL don’t have problems? That’s absurd. The PGA policy is to not release anything about their tour members as it pertains to discipline. It’s very old boys club. DJ was (is?) in love with blow. He was disciplined by PGA but nothing official is ever released.Keep burying your head in the sand and plugging your ears.
Then why don't we hear anything about basketball/ Murican football/ golf having culture problems?
Why would anyone have faith in someone they don't know.
I love hockey.
But hockey players can be some of the most petulant,entitled people you've ever met.
Young males + alcohol + top-of-the-hockey-world ego = get teenage girls the f*** out of here.
When I was a kid, OHL hockey players would show up at a fun party and turn it into a f***ing shitshow.
They're not, they're a troll.You can’t be serious with this??? NBA and NFL don’t have problems? That’s absurd. The PGA policy is to not release anything about their tour members as it pertains to discipline. It’s very old boys club. DJ was (is?) in love with blow. He was disciplined by PGA but nothing official is ever released.
the closed-off male-dominated nature of the leadership of the vast majority of christian groups is a major factor, and that is the background for a lot of the cultural problem both within, and outside hockey. (i'm not a christian, but the closed-off male-dominated groups within my religion share the same problems.)Ya, I was going to say, these guys where so many crosses that I don't think Jesus being absent is the problem...perhaps his presence (more so churches) is part of the problem, with their history of sexual misconduct and cover up.
People saying there is a problem with hockey culture are not casting aspersions on the millions of people who play hockey without sexually assaulting people. They are primarily pointing out two very real problems within hockey culture:Nothing to do with hockey culture, you honestly must be a absolute dumbass to think a sexual assault is anyway part of ”hockey culture” or these awful things happen because of it.
There are literally millions of hockey players and they’re all individuals, and you can choose million individuals from ANY group and you’re bound to have some bad people in there, it’s just how it is.