Torts doesn't look dumb, people scoffed that he'd bench high priced veterans when he was hired, well, he's a man of his word, you play the right way or you sit. Now his idea of merit may not coincide with Magua or Beef, but it's his team, he's the HC, so he's not going to take advice from a message board.
Hayes comes off poorly, compare to TK, Allison or others when they were benched, they were told why, they worked to fix the problem, got back into the lineup and it was never held against them. As Torts pointed out, it wasn't the turnover, he doesn't bench players for one mistake, rather, after you tell someone repeatedly, if they don't change, well, there are few other options. Hayes acts as he's the victim, when he's been slow to back check, sloppy with the puck, out of position, etc.