The Apple vs Android vs Microsoft argument will never be resolved, apart from the fact that Windows is terrible, and their phones were even worse. I use a Macbook for my job, and it is vastly superior to a Windows or Linux laptop (for my needs), but it is not without its issues too. However, I've been an Android user for probably 10+ years. I have dabbled with non-macbook Apple products like iPads and iPhones and found them completely cumbersome and unintuitive to use. Whether that's because I expect things to work the Android way or not is kind of irrelevant, the same could be said for iOS users moving to Android - they just expect things to work like Apple devices and when they don't "Android is shit". I have seen no reason whatsoever to make me think I should move to iOS, the two operating systems and the high end phones basically have feature parity nowadays, so I am happy with sticking with what I know and am comfortable with.
One thing that bothers me though (I went through this with my fiancee) is that a lot of very uninformed people bang the drum for iPhones, because they heard a friend, or a read an article, that says iPhones are just better. When, objectively, they are not. They are not objectively worse either, but the assumption that you HAVE to have an iPhone because Android phones are poor knock-offs is a narrative that needed to die like 5+ years ago. Android as an ecosystem, and software is excellent now, and some of the higher end devices or the Pixels are fantastic devices too. Google has their own lock-in with Google Play Services and stuff like that, but they are no Apple in that regard. The Apple ecosystem can be good for those who have what they need and are happy with the Apple way of working, but completely limiting and frustrating under other circumstances. iTunes is an example of something that was f***ing terrible and had its grimy fingerprints all over iPhones and was impossible to do without. My fiancee had some subscriptions through iTunes for podcasts and video services, and it took ages to figure out how to unravel that shit. Fortunately, iTunes died a sweet death, but it was just indicative of Apple who like to tell you how to use something, rather than let you use it in a way that works for you. There are completely valid reasons for it, but it can be annoying.
Yours sincerely, not an Apple fan.