Part 2.
During this stretch of success for me, my dating profile probably looked like this:
Matt, 31 (almost 35 now, Jesus)
5’10, Military
Just a dog and his dad. We’re probably too cool for you.
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And I leveraged the shit out of Loki being adorable in at least half of my conversations. I’d send 5 pictures of Loki before one of me. I’d insist that Loki was cooler than their dog and that we’d have to meet to have a definitive ruling. Obviously you don’t want to over do anything, but gushing about your animal makes you seem sensitive and vulnerable, I’d wager. Granted I also had thinks like tattoos and military working for me, to counter the effects of coming across as too much of a softy.
Obviously not everyone has a dog and no one has a Loki (one of a kind), but everyone has interesting and endearing things about them. A simple tag line like the one I used was very effective. You don’t need to write a bio. Leave some mystery (and something for yourself to talk about). Don’t try to be too cool in your profile. Humor works. Borrow a friends dog for a picture if you have to. Dogs are a great ice breaker.
Then, when you have a match, don’t be boring and vanilla and safe in your approach. You have like 2-3 messages to grab this girls attention or someone else will. Hey, how’s your day going?
Is lame. Hey, awesome dog, what breed is that?! Is good. Hey, it says you’re a Rangers fan, me too! Isn’t a good opener, especially if you’re profile says that already. So, what do I have to do to take you to a Rangers game? Is a good opener.
And switch the conversation to text. It’s not hard. Just have to go for it.