The forced hand-holding was the reason I dumped pokemon.
Pokemon (at least in its unhacked, vanilla form) has never been difficult. Even as a kid I rarely had trouble beating the first 4 generations but it was enough of a game to keep my brain functioning.
Skipped gen 5 and then when I came back for 6 I was almost insulted by how much more dumbed down it was. Kids aren't drooling idiots, game freak. They don't need shit like forced exp share or the lame "this pokemon wuvs you so much it was able to hang on with 1 HP!" Crap they introduced. Bought gen 8 on a whim during the early stages of the pandemic and hated that even more.
That's also precisely the reason I stayed away from these remakes as well. Gen 4 was the last generation of pokemon I truly liked but I kinda figured they'd add all the garbage from the newer games too. That and iirc 4's end game is basically "idk go catch pokemon or something"