I just talked about it 1 post before but i'll expand on it
I also thought it was the case but only from a vague memory of that movie... Basically, everyone seems to remember that the Doc Ock stuff is really good but after 15 years we all forget that this movie is also a LOT of very boring, poorly written and poorly acted campy dialogues... I know it's supposed to be a comic book movie and feel like a comic book movie but especially now, it doesn't hold up to me. It's nowhere near a Logan or even an infinity wars IMO
There's a couple of scenes in particular where May talks to Peter and MJ talks to Peter and it lasts an eternity, and they just repeat the same thing over and over and over again. The whole party scene where Harry is angry is really weirdly paced and edited, Peter goes outside to talk to MJ for what feels like an hour, he comes back in and Harry just picks up the conversation exactly where he left it off, it's super jarring and strange. Or when Peter tells May about Ben, it takes forever it's sooooo damn long and Tobey Mcguire doesn't have the acting chops to make me care about it at all. I still think he is really bad in general, he acts like a robot until he doesn't... he's either completely dead eyed or overacting like crazy (the crying scene, the scene where he stops the train).
i'll get back to you when I get to both ASM, but I remember liking 1 a lot because it was a lot more of the Spider-Man I love (the annoying quippy kid) and the handling of Gwen Stacy's death. And I know 2 is just a trainwreck, I doubt i'll change my mind on this one