Normally I'm pretty zen about these things but yesterday was the end date for the auction of a card I really really really wanted on eBay.
This was an autographed vintage card for a deceased player. The card was in ok condition but not graded. Normally without the auto it would probably go for 100 USD. With the autograph it wasn't unique, but still really rare. I'd been stalking the listing for 7 days and must have been checking it out every hour during that time. I absolutely wanted to win this, and based on previous examples I thought it would go between 300 and 500 USD, but most likely around 450 USD. My plan was to overbid bet 775 USD a few seconds before the end.
Ten seconds before the end the bidding was at 175 USD... promising. I then make my bid AND SOMEONE BID OVER ME. I panicked and bid 900 USD. The auctions ends. I LOST.
Checking out the auction log, someone else (obviously) bid > 900 USD a few minutes before. The third highest bid was only 175 USD. I was absolutely gutted. Objectively there is no way that card was worth over 1100 CAD. I have several earlier, graded autographed cards of this same player that cost way less than that, but really wanted this one to grow my collection. The winning bidder had previously bid 50 USD and then 90 USD about 12 hours before the auction ended, and then probably over 1000 USD a few minutes before the end. Did he make a mistake? Did he bid 1000$ for a nice round number thinking no one else would go near that? If he did he got a nasty and expensive surprise.
I'm just writing this to better understand myself and to begin the healing process lol. I'm holding out the faint hope that the guy got an unexpected surprise and won't pay and that the card will be relisted in a few weeks. But probably not. Oh well...