I like a wide variety of opinions.
Even on this board:
- We have raging optimists and crushing negatively-oriented folks.
- We have people with varying tolerances for risk and error.
- We have analytical professors and we have eye-test "watch the games!" people.
- We have emotionless cap accountants and we have people who just want to be entertained.
- We have people who are natural contrarians who continuously question the status quo, and we have people who believe in collective wisdom.
Every single player on this team has fans and detractors. There are always of examples of guys who have turned their games around, and guys who tank.
It can be frustrating at times but that is what makes a community.
Most situations have upside and downside.
To be collegial, to have an actual working community, means to accept that not everyone will share your opinion, and to try not to hate the person because of their opinion.
I don't think it's really that hard to understand where someone is coming from, even if you don't agree.
To some, to be a fan means to support the team, management and its players 100%. That's what they need - unequivocal, uncompromising support from their fans. The team is their extended family, and your job as a fan is to be positive and unwavering in your admiration.
To others, being a fan means to want the team to succeed as much as possible, which means supporting their best decisions while decrying their worst. It means being critical about the team and its management, holding them to account for every misstep.
Both of these definitions are ultimately applicable.