Witcher is warming up to me after some key changes I made...
1) I upped the difficulty level to the highest level (not the level matching toggle)
2) I cleaned up my HUD, removing weapon damage, quest title and descriptions, and the white lined quest guider on the minimap.
3) Changed my camera distance from far to close, which puts me more on eye level with the towns, characters, and environments
4) Forced myself to pay full attention to the cutscenes
This game really is about narrative and world immersion as much as anything. Going for a more minimalist HUD and focusing on the characters/story has helped make the game a lot more enthralling. I'm enjoying the game much more the last few days as I let myself get sucked in to the world.
So i'd recommend
@pistolpete11 you stick with it and turn off your criticisms. I had the same issues and I'm falling in love with the game now