I just think it's despicable to wish fans of another team lose their team, especially when there's nothing material to gain from it besides their tears.
That's completely fair. I'm not even asking you to change that opinion. But I am asking you to acknowledge why someone might act that way besides "They're evvvvvvvviiiiiilllllllllllll and meanie poo-poo!!!!!!"
Grow up. They're like a kid throwing a fit because Mom is making him share his toys.
Here it is. Here it is right here. The "condescending-and-don't-intend-it-or even-know-they're-doing-it" Americanism I know all so well. Especially when you follow it up with...
Hockey or the NHL is nobody's identity, it's an entertainment product.
You live in Raleigh or near it, yes? How's about you drive the 3-4 hours to Columbia on Gamecock GameDay and tell them "football isn't your identity, it's just an entertainment product." See what a warm reception you get.
If you make the mistake of adopting the consumption of a product as your identity, then prepare to have it shattered when said business aims to grow (as all smart businesses do). More people will get involved, and *gasp* you'll have to share it.
But businesses that grow also close locations all the time when they realize the limitations of their outreach. That is also part of business. So if the Canes did relocate, you're not exactly practicing what you preach by taking it personally either. By
your own logic, it'd be nothing to get worked up about.
It's a lot like "feelings for me, but not for thee."
I take offense as the premise that the NHL or hockey in general would be more popular, profitable, and more successful than it's ever been if it just abandoned 80% of the continental US. That's not reality, it's just xenophobia.
But if the Hurricanes had left Raleigh, the southeast would still have hockey and still have several NHL teams (
and to be fair, this is equally true of Canada as a nation writ large but that would ignore that a lot of Quebecers don't necessarily relate as Canadians...but I'm not stepping into that wasp's nest). Xenophobic is being a tad dramatic here and if I wanted to (
I don't), I could argue it's farrrrrrrrrrrrr more xenophobic to not want a NHL team in a francophone city while there are already 31 teams in anglophone cities and one team in a bilingual one.
Look it as this way and perhaps you'll understand your unintended condescension:
1--- hockey fans in Quebec City would like a team,
2--- the message they frequently receive is "the league will never expand to your city because your prospective owners won't be able to afford the expansion fee,"
3--- "you *might* get a team one day but it'll have to be a relocated one."
4--- So you'd rather have a team that's yours from the start but it's not an option.
By telling that fan they're mean because they want your team, you're inadvertently saying "
Your city shouldn't aspire to anything. Why can't you accept that you have less than me and like it? It's stupid that you actually want anything for your podunk town. Why can't you just know your role and acquiesce and furthermore do it with a big ol' smile on your face?"
But then they're the mean ones when that's the message you're giving off.
And I know that's not the direct message you're giving. And yeah I laid it on real real thick. But it's how it comes across. And as a wise man once told me, "if enough people tell you that's how you're coming across, you don't have a say in telling them they're wrong."
Since this thread is about the Coyotes, I'll just say: I don't think one is evil or "despicable" for wanting the Coyotes to relocate. I *do* think it's a bit dickish to lord that opinion over the fans. If a burger stand closed due to too few customers, I wouldn't berate the actual customers they had. If anything: I'd laud them for being the people that appreciated the product. I might lord it over a random Joe & Jane Q Citizen in said town and tell them "you don't appreciate what you have."
And to aqib's point, that armour will have to stay up a while because the Yotes are playing 2023-24 in Mullett. I'm sure there will be more twists and turns until a new arena is decided upon, whether or not said arena is in Arizona. And no matter whether the team stays or goes, someone will be hurting. Just the nature of the beast.