Leafsfan74
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- Jul 2, 2018
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I feel like anyone with half of a brain comprehends this. Saying no is a simple concept that every person - from the mentally challenged and all the way up the ladder to the geniuses of society - we all learned as a child that if someone says no or stop in any situation that requires their consent- and you keep doing it - your being bad. And depending on what it is that your doing - you might even now be a criminal.
What you dont know, nor I, nor anyone here knows - is whether or not her consent was revoked at any point during that night. It appears like the okay was given at one point before, and then once again afterwards if we go by the video. But again we dont know for sure any of key details about what was really said or how it went down behind the scenes. Thats a fact. The criminal case hinges on it.
But should it be a case where no one was given any indication that her consent was revoked - this whole mess becomes a lot less cut and dry for me. And I personally have a hard time placing a rapist label on someone (a drunk teenaged kid) who didnt know they were actually raping someone until they found out days later through a surprise visit from the authorities.
I do believe that its okay to be sexually adventurous in a responsible setting (not talking about this event just in general). And the basic understanding from all consenting adults in the bedroom is that "no" means "no" if anyone gets a little bit too carried away in the moment. It happens. But all it takes is saying "no" or "stop" - and that will be enough to immediately stop 99% of law biding citizens from whatever their doing.
Those words might not stop a gang rape from happening in a prison or in the backroom of a bikers clubhouse - but I have at least a bit of doubt that 8 prominent young hockey players in the eye of the public and with huge future stakes to lose, would all be malicious and evil enough to ignore her pleas to stop or any obvious sign of distress, and then just go ahead with raping her anyways.
Even if they were all deranged sociopaths that were more worried about their own self interests than harming another person - I still find it hard to believe they would all just ignore the fact that they would be majorly jeopardizing their future careers and go ahead with committing a major crime thats full of personal risk. Something just doesnt fully add up for me, personally speaking.
It might have gone down the exact way she said it did. But Im allowed to have at least a bit of doubt on that based on what we know today. So ill avoid making any kind of real judgement whatsoever for now - as should all of you,
This is a Canadian cultural issue about power. Whether it's corrupt politicians, abusive covert police in Thunder Bay, Toronto, OPP or RCMP, or in this case, athletes who are protected by deep pockets; Canadians learn that power ensures a lack of accountability.
In some countries, those who take an oath to defend citizens rights and principles pursue the most powerful abusers of said principles. In Canada, they PROTECT and ignore powerful targets and instead focus on the low hanging fruit, the path of least resistance against those who don't have the resources to defend themselves.
When you have young people aware of this hierarchy of general cowardice, of course it will be exploited. Throw in alcohol and a group mentality of diffusion of responsibility and it becomes substantially more problematic.