I am in a place to know, and know many more people who are as well, because as an adult in a relationship who knows other people including women, you get a pretty good take on these things because they are fairly common. Them being devastated is a given, but it’s not a free pass to behave the way EK did as a professional and captain of a pro team. But hey, you’re and EK fanboy so let’s go with your take!
How you deal with something as messed up as a miscarriage is not how everyone will. Get that through your head. It is not your place to decide how one should act with "dignity" after suffering a miscarriage. You and I having partners, being adults in relationships, all of that doesn't mean we get to decide how much one suffers in that situation.
Actually, it’s wasn’t shown to be false. People brought up quotes by players at the time who of course will say wonderful things like they do now with Brady (though no one ever said EK dragged anyone in battle etc, he lead on the ice as in was the best player doing best player things), and then used things like he was at Stone’s wedding, and Alfie likes him as evidence as well.
Thing is, when you watch interviews like the one on Wally and Meth with Ryan and they talk about EK, no one mentions leadership. You go back and look at what Burrows and Anderson had to say about the lockeroom situation, along with what Hoffman had to say, and none of that fits your story of great leader. Lack of leadership is the story.
Wait a minute, no one brings up that EK hasn't dragged his team into battle? I wonder what on earth he did in 2017 or the nights he's playing 30+ minutes.
SWEDE SUCCESS: Karlsson pays his own tribute as Alfredsson goes into the Hall
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The greatest Senator of all time said this “Erik, thank you for helping me extend my career, with the energy, enthusiasm and confidence and presence,” said
Alfredsson.
Erik Karlsson’s identity as a player and person bleed together, giving us one of the sport’s most dynamic and unique characters on and off the ice.
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“He’s been terrific to coach,” said
Guy Boucher, who took over as Ottawa’s coach this season. “Since the summer we’ve had many talks together, and he’s been an unbelievable leader in all aspects. He’s been defending so hard. He’s on time. He takes young guys aside. Everything you hope for from a leader, he’s shown it. ”
"Karlsson will speak up if he sees something he doesn’t like, and teammates respect him for it,
Methot said. It’s not that Karlsson always wears his emotions on his sleeve. It’s that, when he does feel emotion, he’s comfortable showing it"
Alfie, Ceci, Boro literally joined EK's Can't Dim My Light Foundation opening ceremony. Karlsson's peers and coaches literally thought he was a good leader. Not legendary like Messier or Yzerman, just that he was a good leader.
37-year-old goalie hopes Ottawa can put offseason turmoil to rest
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Anderson said the following ""If everything going on this summer gets cleaned up, I've got no interest in going anywhere else," the 37-year-old goalie said Sunday at the Stars & Stripes Showdown when asked about an offseason report that he had requested a trade from the Senators. "I'm too old for drama." I don't see how anyone interprets that as the whole situation was shitty, as oppose to Anderson thinks EK tore apart the locker room.
Alex Burrows says multiple factors left the Senators overcome by “negative energy” in their plunge to 30th place last season.
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Burrows said the following " “It’s not only one thing. It’s not only (owner) Eugene (Melnyk) or coaches or players … Karl,” said Burrows. “It seems like it was a lot of things that went on at the same time, and we didn’t really respond to it well. "I blame myself for it. I should have been maybe more proactive or found a way to … but that’s the way it is sometimes. It’s personal stuff you think they’re not going to expose, but later on you realize maybe you should have done something about it.” Exactly what makes you infer that Burrows thinks Karlsson single handedly tore the room a part from what Burrows said?
What on earth did Bobby Ryan say in his various appearances on the Meth and Wally show? I've listend to every one and at no point was there anything about EK dividing a room.
You seem to think pointing out that your rationale for EK being a bad leader as false equates to EK fanboy. If doing so helps you sleep at night and cheer for the team, have at it but its pathetic and stifles actual discussion in threads that aren't even about EK.