Blows my mind but it is the world we live in today. Comply or be ostracized and villainized.
The crazies on Twitter out in full force demanding the Flyers terminate his contract.
Putting aside the player's requirements under his contract, I generally agree that the player should be able to do what he wants here. Personally, I would have taken the ice, but I don't have a problem that this player didn't, and were you and I on the same team, I wouldn't have any issue if you made a different choice.
I see two sides to this thing - one good, one concerning.
For years now, there has been a movement towards acceptance of the LGBTQ community. Which has been a great movement, IMO. Religious beliefs don't have to equate to treating others disrespectfully (which Provorov didn't), and no one should be ostracized for who they are (I disagree with your assertion that some people aren't born gay).
But what does 'acceptance' mean here? I think this is where things get a bit muddy. In my opinion, that means offering courtesy and respect. That's it. You live your life, I'll live mine.
However, on the other side, that push for acceptance has now (quite quickly) gone from "You must respect it", to "You must participate in it". And then to "You must celebrate it". Do all three, or otherwise you're a bigot. And I don't agree with this at all. Not the participation/celebration requirement, nor the threat that got appended to the end. The pendulum has swung too far.
I believe that people should offer others respect and courtesy, regardless of how they live their lives (not counting obvious stuff like violence, etc). However, no one
must participate in, and celebrate, others' lives and/or choices. That doesn't make them bigots or full of hate. Just not what they want to do. It could be due to Provorov's religion, or it could be due to the fact that he'd rather be spending his time in his kitchen, cooking a bundt cake.
We should expect courtesy from everyone. We should not be forcing/compelling anyone to participate in and celebrate others' lives or choices, with a nasty social threat hanging over their heads. That's just wrong.
Now, what were Provorov's requirements as a member of that team....?