Agreed.
The losing players thing might be a trend people have noticed a number of years ago, regardless of whether we "had to" let them go, or not (ie Heatley for Hossa trade). Other fans around the league see former Senators like Chara, Hasek, Hossa and Fisher have great success after leaving Ottawa and they say to themselves "Man, if Ottawa could have kept those guys, they'd be amazing. I can't believe they lost all that talent." So when high profile guys like Alfie and Spezza walk, rightly or wrongly, it strengthens their stance on us not being able to retain talent.