Viqsi
"that chick from Ohio"
You make your luck. If you're an effective GM who'd like to avoid a very damaging losing streak, you don't wait for other people's offers.
What part of whose sentence looked or sounded ANYTHING like "wait for other people's offers"?
You call somebody, ask for their #5 blueliner. They reply "Jenner or GTFO". You try to discuss further and they're not budging because they have no reason to, they don't have any motivation to move anybody for anything 'cause it's too early in the season and you're a desperate GM who therefore can potentially be fleeced. There's only so much someone can do in a circumstance like that.
And if another GM didn't react that way? He'd be well known around the league as an "easy mark" and ripe for the picking any time you have any trouble. It really does happen. It's happened to us with Doug MacLean.