But again, it's a flawed premise.
I give you and GBH the credit that you can walk and chew gum at the same time. Neither of you seem to be able to afford anyone else the same credit.
For example, the idea that Kopitar playing less than 22 minutes is 'negativity' despite 1. being reasonable at this stage of his career; 2. demonstrably different results in the two sample sizes; 3. wanting the best for the team in suggesting that. But instead it gets twisted to "ok sure but you're not an NHL coach" and we're bad fans. It's horse shit binary labeling when there's an enormous ocean of grey area between "this team is a surefire cup contender and I'm always smiling" and "this team and everything associated with it is a dumpster fire and i'm hatewatching it just to post here miserably". I'm not sure why you can't see that given you were on the other side of the equation before, but I would suggest entering other threads without an axe to grind and see how the discussion goes instead of going in with the prejudice that 'every opinion that's not relentlessly positive is written from a negative perspective.'