I've talked about this with Henchy in private, but given the prolonged conversation in here, I'll join in:
When my fiancee and I split in July, I stopped eating a lot of the junk food I used to keep in the apartment, and made a hard switch to drinking diet soda (if I'm drinking soda at all). I slowly incorporated different vegetables into my diet, where I now typically enjoy eating spinach and steamed broccoli with my entree.
On January 3rd I joined the YMCA here in Wichita, went for the first time on January 4th, and have been every day since then, primarily doing 35-50 minute exercises on an elliptical or cycling machine.
Since July I am down 43 lbs. I've got a long way to go before I hit my target weight, but I've already cleared my first benchmark and am in general having fun going.
Everyone is different, and will achieve results in a different way. For me, my key has been regulating my caloric intake in combination with exercising enough to burn off calories. On top of that, developing the will power to tell myself "NO!" when I sometimes want to cheat myself and have something like pizza or honey-BBQ wings (of which I *really* want some right now). I still have a lot to learn when it comes to what foods are good and bad for me, especially because I have a decent amount of belly fat that I'd like to GET RID OF, lol.
But
@Foppberg it's great that you're wanting to start this. Please know you can always lean on this group here for encouragement. I know that despite what the scales are telling me, I haven't necessarily felt like I've *seen* the results. It was actually my sister-in-law and the girl I'm trying to start dating telling me, unprompted, that my progress is showing.
So keep it up man!