It's called an emotional investment for a reason. The more you put into it, the more you get out of it.
Not giving a **** when the team is bad is nice, but you're also not going to feel a fraction of the payoff that others will when they win.
that's the way I see it. maybe that just makes me an emotional person. If i pick up a book, i expect it to be good. I'll get upset if it's not, I'll be excited if it is. why? because it's entertainment
Same with a movie. same with a play
i think sports is a totally different animal, once you select a team. people keep arguing how come people go "I, we" in sports - well for me - because it's MY team. it's different watching the Leafs vs. ___________ because i'm emotionally invested. I want the team to play well, I want to see our best players shine, I want those who are slumping to break out. I'll be super disappointed if it doesn't, and ecstatic when they do.
i am sure as heck enjoying these playoffs - because I have no vested interest. I'll be sad when the cup is rewarded (and maybe a little tears) because once again it's going to a team that's not MY team. and now with teams who never won cups before - are winning cups before we are - it makes me angry. Why. Because MY team that I want to have win isn't THERE.
when the Leafs win the cup - i'll be ecstatic. there will be tears. i will be jumping up and down. it will make ALL of this worth it.
I don't get why that gets me (or others) judged (for wanting to go through the bad times, or be emotional at first hop if something happens that shocked/upset/excited however), or if I have a certain ideology (tanking/not tanking, whatever) and people are like "well why are you emotional?" or why does it matter." or "I hope the total opposite happens because you wanted it to be like so."
so again - i say. I respect people's decisions and opinions. I may think it's crazy, but that's your right. if you want to leave - leave. I respect it. but just go. If you don't want to be emotional about the team - then don't be but don't query why others are? if the team's decisions doesn't affect you - ducky - but expect and respect that for some people they do.