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Aw . He was excellent in the Harry Potter films. So young...so sad

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I'm sorry Kevin. Hope you are taking care of yourself as much as possible through this extraordinarily difficult time. May Marc rest easy in eternal peace with his wife.

I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done


Beautifully said. It hasn't taken me long to see that both of these have certainly come to fruition.
 

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I need to sign up for both next couple of months. Lots of info to sort through.
But looking forward to it. Just for me alone Im paying $1300 a month for health insurance out of my pocket.
If you haven't already, go to SSA. gov and click the My Social Security tab and create an account to get started. It was easier than I thought it would be. And I called the local office a couple months before I started and took care of it over the phone again with relative ease.
 

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What an experience today.

Booked our Covid boosters and flu shots for 4pm today a few weeks ago. We have no plans tomorrow so figured I’d we have side effects we can just lay low.

I’m pulling into the parking lot at cvs and my husband calls me and says they are short staffed so aren’t doing vaccines today. No cancellation notice, nothing. Luckily we live in greater Boston there are CVS’s everywhere. Drive about a mile and a half down the road to another one, explain the situation and ask if they’ll take us as walk-ins. Pharmacist was super helpful and tried to put us in the system but the pharmacist at the other cvs hadn’t cancelled us out yet so they couldn’t. Pharmacist calls other store, is on hold for THIRTY FIVE MINUTES and then finally tells us if we didn’t mind driving back up the road we might be able to get processed faster if we go back in and ask him to cancel us and they’ll take us right away when we get back.

So get back in the car and head back to the other CVS (look kids! Big Ben, Parliament!) and wait in line. The pharmacist clearly felt awful we came back to have it cancelled after we explained and the system miraculously started working and he could take us. So our 4pm appointment turned into a 530pm appointment but it’s done. Then back to the other CVS to tell them we were all set because they were so helpful and I didn’t want to leave them hanging.

Now, we wait to see how we do with both vaccines onboard at once.
 

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If you haven't already, go to SSA. gov and click the My Social Security tab and create an account to get started. It was easier than I thought it would be. And I called the local office a couple months before I started and took care of it over the phone again with relative ease.

yes, I set up my SS account on line a few weeks. So I could model what I get at what age. My ‘full’ is 66. But I turn 65 in April. Difference is about $250 a month. Im going with 65.

My company offers for retirees like me Advantage plans but I prefer staying on BCBS.
When I looked that up for a PPO for me it was like $235 a month.

The Bride is a few years younger than me. So, I’ll keep her on my corporate retirement BCBS for 3 more years. $1100 a month but with all her cancer care we dont want to change horses mid stream.

I know the town I live in has a resource here too with help navigating the logistics. I may reach out to them too.
 

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January 2023 is when the COLA goes into effect. And Medicare Part B is going down too, a whopping five bucks!
Hey, I will take it.

There is also help coming for folks on Medicare (especially insulin) with their prescription meds. It won't do anything for me because I only take one pill a day for blood pressure (very cheap) but it will really help some.

I need to sign up for both next couple of months. Lots of info to sort through.
But looking forward to it. Just for me alone Im paying $1300 a month for health insurance out of my pocket.
Yikes!!!!
 

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Hey, I will take it.

There is also help coming for folks on Medicare (especially insulin) with their prescription meds. It won't do anything for me because I only take one pill a day for blood pressure (very cheap) but it will really help some.


Yikes!!!!

yep Ive been paying out of pocket for both of us $2400 a month since June. Luckily Ive been able to collect unemployment since May to help cover that . But that ends next month. So I have a 6 month gap to cover.

And regard to insulin, thank God. My sister will not only get her SS raise but her insulin will go from $500 a month to $35.
 

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yep Ive been paying out of pocket for both of us $2400 a month since June. Luckily Ive been able to collect unemployment since May to help cover that . But that ends next month. So I have a 6 month gap to cover.

And regard to insulin, thank God. My sister will not only get her SS raise but her insulin will go from $500 a month to $35.
I was stunned (pleasantly so) that they were able to pass that bill on the reduction on the meds and cap on prescriptions.

Even though it doesn't really help me much (yet) it is a blessing for many folks who are financially killed with the high cost of prescriptions. I know a few of my friends who this will make a huge difference for.

I started collecting SS when I was 67 even though I was still working. I put the extra in savings for a car. My Accord is 12 years old and has 170+ k miles. I am waiting until next year on a new car and hope my clutch holds old (knocks wood).

My cost of living went up faster than I had planned. I need the new raise.

I will take the small savings on the cost of Part B. I figured it would go up so was happy it did not.

I have a Medigap plan for supplemental insurance (plan G). Who knows. There are so many plans. Some are cheaper but you have to pay every time you go and cannot pick your own doctors. Also, you need referrals for everything...no thanks.

My work insurance was set up, so I had to get a referral for everything. I am still getting used to my new plan. I haven't used it much yet
 
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What an experience today.

Booked our Covid boosters and flu shots for 4pm today a few weeks ago. We have no plans tomorrow so figured I’d we have side effects we can just lay low.

I’m pulling into the parking lot at cvs and my husband calls me and says they are short staffed so aren’t doing vaccines today. No cancellation notice, nothing. Luckily we live in greater Boston there are CVS’s everywhere. Drive about a mile and a half down the road to another one, explain the situation and ask if they’ll take us as walk-ins. Pharmacist was super helpful and tried to put us in the system but the pharmacist at the other cvs hadn’t cancelled us out yet so they couldn’t. Pharmacist calls other store, is on hold for THIRTY FIVE MINUTES and then finally tells us if we didn’t mind driving back up the road we might be able to get processed faster if we go back in and ask him to cancel us and they’ll take us right away when we get back.

So get back in the car and head back to the other CVS (look kids! Big Ben, Parliament!) and wait in line. The pharmacist clearly felt awful we came back to have it cancelled after we explained and the system miraculously started working and he could take us. So our 4pm appointment turned into a 530pm appointment but it’s done. Then back to the other CVS to tell them we were all set because they were so helpful and I didn’t want to leave them hanging.

Now, we wait to see how we do with both vaccines onboard at once.
I went into my friendly CVS (which has been FILTHY lately - trash all over the floor) on Sunday to cancel my flu/Covid booster scheduled for Monday because I had the flu last week and wasn’t feeling 100%. They told me there was no way to cancel it - just don’t show up. :confused:
 
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Not to be someone who always leaves jobs or something but I have an interview with Garda on Monday.

Like my current job but the pay is weird. Since im still on training I get like $15 an hour plus a % of trucks I work on. But after training I think I go down to whatever minimum wage is plus a % of each truck so my manager told us new guys we have to be faster.

Dont know why its so hard to find a job fit. I work hard and bust my ass. People here notice it too.
 

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Not to be someone who always leaves jobs or something but I have an interview with Garda on Monday.

Like my current job but the pay is weird. Since im still on training I get like $15 an hour plus a % of trucks I work on. But after training I think I go down to whatever minimum wage is plus a % of each truck so my manager told us new guys we have to be faster.

Dont know why its so hard to find a job fit. I work hard and bust my ass. People here notice it too.
its sucks dude.
have you tried insurance? like going to houses and giving quotes on property damage.
my buddy does that and hes the laziest kid around but somehow makes way more$$ than me. pisses me off. gets to work from home and everything.
ihe always was a shit talker and somehow got these jobs.
 

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This was the eulogy for my friend

Thank you all for being here today . We are honored to share this time with our family, friends, and community to join in remembering Marc’s life. It is unimaginable to think of Marc Anderson not being on this earth with us anymore. This is a loss that runs deep for all of us gathered here today. We have a feeling Marc wouldn’t want us to be sad but instead be together, and practicing the values he lived life by- kindness, caring, loving, and connection. He had a broad and everlasting impact on so many of us who have known him.

There is no doubt that Marc loved everyone in his circle… beginning with Ruth and Bonnie, they were always the center of his whole world… growing up Marc was the sole prince of the family surrounded by all girls, not just the ones he lived with, but six other girl cousins who would chase and tickle, finally tackling him for goodbye hugs and kisses… a giant “yuck” in Marc’s world (at the time). Aunts and Uncles would watch and smile, there wasn’t much they could do, no doubt Marc was the center of attention at family gatherings. Then along came Joe, a nephew to love and spoil as a child, later a confidant and support into adulthood. He was a brother-in-law to Bob, and blessed once again to be the “fun” uncle to Michayla and Bobby… as the family circle continued to grow Marc never missed a beat… always showing up at holidays and birthdays with a gift wrapped in some type of bag.

When it came to Belmont, Marc was certainly “The man around town” and Channing Road was definitely the place to be in the late 1980’s. They may have skipped class from time to time, microwaved hotdogs, and watched The Blue Brothers. Marc fostered so many lifelong relationships in school and around town. Marc then went on to attend college at UMASS Amherst with a few of his Belmontian friends and joined the Sig Ep fraternity. He made lifelong friends and girlfriends there- and to know him was to love him. After college he had some wild and unruly roommates… and his circle continued to grow through various adventures and local haunts throughout Cambridge, Allston, Brighton and beyond.

We have heard from life long friends of his, and one common thread (or shall I say Common Ground) is that he helped so many people- and so many of us have the same type of stories. Marc was so humble. He showed us all some of the best examples of what it is to be a loyal friend, a fierce protector of those he loved, a thoughtful and ever caring husband & partner, a best man, an uncle with the ultimate spoiling powers, a doting Godfather, an even-keeled sounding board, an advisor through tough financial times, a thoughtful caregiver. No one could show care in such a way as he did. As so many have said “the kindest soul I have ever met”. His love and care showed no boundaries. As described by Kristina (best friend of Amelie’s) “I couldn’t have asked for a more caring partner for her. He supported her right to the end. I’ll always be grateful for him”.

What was it about Marc that he could just sense when those closest to him needed some love, a lift, a feeling of being completely seen and understood without him having to say a word. He would be there, he would have a coffee, a six pack, an order of crab rangoon with extra duck sauce, or whatever it was he thought would help. And the thing about Marc was he knew each person so well, paid attention to who they were, and knew what they needed- sometimes before they did.

It seems no matter where he went Marc would continue to grow his circle and his family. Here’s one example of how:

From Steve - It was 2000 in Boston and I walked back into my office. There was a tall guy in my chair and he said, "let me move". Turns out he was my new accountant and I really needed one. So I let him stay where he was.

He taught me American Football. Every Sunday in the Common Ground, he'd translate from Rugby into Football for me. His group of friends just confirmed what a great guy he was.

We golfed together. We went to Ireland and played. Then we went north and he gained new family - my mother, Father and Grandmother all fell in love with the gentle giant. My brother in Belfast talked to him last Saturday about the Soccer. He loved his time in Manchester and he lived for Man City.

While visiting my Family, he was met with my Father's warm welcome, "Jaysus a big fellah like you should clear that plate". 2 inches thick of full Irish breakfast. The next day, on the 9th hole of Royal Portrush Golf Club, I kept look out while Marc ruined every golf towel we had between us. Not a porta potty in sight.

As much as he loved Manchester, he also loved Scotland and has been bending my ear about thoughts of moving there.

He became Godfather to my son Luke. I had the greatest of pleasures to officiate Amelie and Marc's wedding. It is holding me together that they are reunited and probably chuckling at us right now over a smoke.

But I'll never forget his friendship and his dry humor.

I'm now a Man City supporter. I've got the scarf and shirt coming Marc.

From Ethan “At some point a decade or so ago I was blessed to go from being some guy who stood near him in a bar to being his very close friend. And the warmth he opened to me in between his economical use of words was bottomless after that point. And that was the Marc experience. When he asked you how you are doing, how are things, he really wanted to know. A man with a bottomless heart there for me always”.

Marc had a way with people. Once you knew him for a while you wanted to introduce him to others, and your family- he quickly became part of your circle too, your family, your heart and your soul. He made you feel safe, cared for, and protected.

When Marc met Amelie it was plain to see that his love grew and his circle grew wider. It was a rare and beautiful thing to see two people so happy in love. When you saw them together they were glowing and you could tell that they were soulmates.

As shared from friend Joe- “When Marc and Amelie first started seeing each other, they tried to keep it on the down low, like it was some secret romance. We laughed at them because it was so obvious. The one night I ran into them on Brighton Ave. They pretended they had just run into each other coincidentally. The next day I called him”knock it off- a pretty girl likes you. That’s a good thing. On his wedding day he said to me: “A Pretty girl like me. That’s a good thing”.

Marc was the most authentic and quintessentially himself person. He lived a certain way and that was the way he lived. He had his own traditions- golf on Saturday, Football on Sunday, season tickets to the Red Sox, and as Kevin shared waiting to throw out his Christmas tree until opening day. Marc always waited until December 24th to do his holiday shopping all in one day and somehow never was stressed about it. He loved all Sports. In high school he was on the golf team, and continued to play as an ace golfer weekly with some of his closest friends, even taking trips to Ireland and Scotland to play golf there as well as taking trips to Manchester or also known as “Man City”. Sundays were made for friends & football- the Patriots being his favorite followed by both Amelie & Marc’s love of the Vikings. Marc loved soccer, the world cup and had a secret love for the Bruins. He may have been known to watch a wrestling match or two- special ordering a WWF event on a Sunday night was not uncommon. He also loved music - mainly rock & roll and punk- early days Kurt Cobain, Rancid, Real Kids, Rush, the Who, he loved a good concert and an occasional mosh pit. Marc loved his dogs- he loved Turkish, Penelope, and Bird. Penelope even had her own futon. He always ensured that he got back to feed & walk them himself. Especially as the dogs aged.

Marc was so smart- whether it be in accounting or math, reading or politics, history, culture, music, he could run circles around many of us on any of these subjects. He had a brilliant mind. Forever curious and vastly knowledgeable.

Marc was a wickedly funny person and had his own brand of humor. Marc had a few well known sayings and practices… “Please don’t make a scene” was tried and true… heaven forbid you misstep and trip. Another cure all explanation was “these things happen” that one rang true until just recently.

“A pretty girl likes me- that’s a good thing”.

“Meh”

“There may have been dancing involved last night”.

“Whatever boss”

“Not a problem”

He may have been known to wear a kilt from time to time, wild printed pants, not afraid to try on a headband, or even spandex shorts….he would have many of us in cracking up with his quirky get ups. Marc loved a good adventure and on most days up for anything.

I had someone ask …how should we go on?…What would Marc want us to do? I’m not sure but I’m thinking….

More love, less judgement. More fun, less convention. More pizza, less veggies. More Sunday fundays, less work. More walks and long talks. More hugs, less fighting. More understanding, less dividing. More giving, less taking. More laughing, less crying. More dogs, less cats. More time with each other. And maybe a few more stories not appropriate for church.

Thank you Marc for showing us all what is most important in life: showing people you care, giving them more love than you think they need, taking time for connection, being a big kid, having fun, being curious about different people & places and exploring them, always expanding your circle- especially with the good ones.

We are all better people for having known Marc. We love you so much and will forever hold you in our hearts.
 
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