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Ice-Tray

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My wife and I both run our own businesses and set our own hours. She has more structure from day to day with clients and classes, where as I generally can pick and choose if and when I want to work.

I used to have a regular job, but went a different route upon returning to Canada (circumstance played a much larger role than planning I fully admit) and I have to say it really changed my life.

We tend to live for the moment we're currently in, more than for strictly the 'future' or retirement, and it has really enriched our day to day lives. We are able to be spontaneous, to take time off whenever we want or need, and generally not feel any of the oppressiveness I once felt as an employee.

The downside is that we are personally responsible for making money, and it is not nearly as 'safe' as working for a business.

There is always talk of work,save,retire,relax and that general life path is taught early and with good reason in terms of keeping the machine moving, but both my parents died young, with my father dying a year before retirement. I was just graduating from Uni and it changed my perspective on life profoundly.

I finished my degree, broke up with my fiancé, left the country to work, and vowed to live all of the years between now and retirement as though I could die at any time. Not like a crazy person mind you, but in a way that would make me feel as though I had not wasted my life if I were to find I had an ALS filled deterioration year left before death, type thing.

Needless to say it's not for everyone, and other folks do it better, but we're happy, have time to be happy, and have a substantial amount of control over the time we spend alive.

Just another example of a way to live I suppose. :)
 

YouGotAStuGoing

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Much better story if the earth was purposely gobbling up cars and scaring people away.

I mean, the city's much-vaunted LRT tunnel (speculatively) collapsing and swallowing up a busy intersection due to poor planning seems like a pretty good story too (in a horrified, can't-look-away kind of way.)
 

HoffStoneKarl*

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My wife and I both run our own businesses and set our own hours. She has more structure from day to day with clients and classes, where as I generally can pick and choose if and when I want to work.

I used to have a regular job, but went a different route upon returning to Canada (circumstance played a much larger role than planning I fully admit) and I have to say it really changed my life.

We tend to live for the moment we're currently in, more than for strictly the 'future' or retirement, and it has really enriched our day to day lives. We are able to be spontaneous, to take time off whenever we want or need, and generally not feel any of the oppressiveness I once felt as an employee.

The downside is that we are personally responsible for making money, and it is not nearly as 'safe' as working for a business.

There is always talk of work,save,retire,relax and that general life path is taught early and with good reason in terms of keeping the machine moving, but both my parents died young, with my father dying a year before retirement. I was just graduating from Uni and it changed my perspective on life profoundly.

I finished my degree, broke up with my fiancé, left the country to work, and vowed to live all of the years between now and retirement as though I could die at any time. Not like a crazy person mind you, but in a way that would make me feel as though I had not wasted my life if I were to find I had an ALS filled deterioration year left before death, type thing.

Needless to say it's not for everyone, and other folks do it better, but we're happy, have time to be happy, and have a substantial amount of control over the time we spend alive.

Just another example of a way to live I suppose. :)

What kind of business. I've always seen myself as an entrepreneur and would love that lifestyle, only problem is I don't know what kind of business I could start up
 

Ice-Tray

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What kind of business. I've always seen myself as an entrepreneur and would love that lifestyle, only problem is I don't know what kind of business I could start up

My wife runs a bootcamp company and is a personal trainer, I design websites, do webhosting, create and sell teaching resources, and fix cars.

She used to manage a shop, and I used to be a classroom teacher.
 

HoffStoneKarl*

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My wife runs a bootcamp company and is a personal trainer, I design websites, do webhosting, create and sell teaching resources, and fix cars.

She used to manage a shop, and I used to be a classroom teacher.

Nice! I've quit my 9-5 job as of July 8. I plan on spending the next year figuring out what I want to do and doing some training if needed.

I'm thinking about starting a non-skilled business, like a liquor store or something. Something where I can hire employees and just manage the operations
 

Engineer

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Call an emergency presser.

Answer every question with "we can't speculate"

:yo: Politics
 

Benjamin

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Had a phone interview today. It went perfect until she asked if I have a vehicle. Which I don't. For a job that doesn't require driving... She sounded like not having a vehicle was a bad thing.

Frustrating.
 

Caeldan

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Had a phone interview today. It went perfect until she asked if I have a vehicle. Which I don't. For a job that doesn't require driving... She sounded like not having a vehicle was a bad thing.

Frustrating.

Do you have a license, and access to a vehicle if you absolutely need it? If so, just say yes to a question like that.
 

Here I Pageau Again

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Crazy. I couldn't imagine my life in Canada without a car

Me neither.

I knew a couple of people in my early 20s who didn't care to get a license.... now in their early 30s have gone to get their license because they regret it.

It's something nice to have even if you don't plan on getting a car now. Transit in Canada is pretty crappy.
 

HoffStoneKarl*

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Me neither.

I knew a couple of people in my early 20s who didn't care to get a license.... now in their early 30s have gone to get their license because they regret it.

It's something nice to have even if you don't plan on getting a car now. Transit in Canada is pretty crappy.

Ya, outside of Montreal. it makes sense that the transit is crappy. it's a big country with a small population
 

Caeldan

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Nope and nope. I never cared to drive.

Not having your license will be career limiting just in the fact that you can't take any job where even a smidgeon of travel is required.

Plus for more entry level positions may make it a black mark as they think that you don't have a reliable way to get to work
 

Knave

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Mar 6, 2007
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I don't really drive much but I got my license. It's nice to have if I do need to drive somewhere... there have been a few times where I needed to get a family member to the hospital (or meet one there). It's also nice for some other minor things but like I said - I always try to avoid driving if possible.
 

L'Aveuglette

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Jan 8, 2007
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Haven't had a car in 7 years living here in Montreal, and don't regret it. I bike everywhere and take public transportation in the winter. For a guy my age, I feel like it keeps me young. Driving everywhere really limits the amount of exercise you get during any particular week I feel.

A lot of people in Toronto and Vancouver get away with not driving as well.
 
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