I think this is similar to another conversation I had a few days ago about commenting on the game versus commenting on the state of the franchise.
In a GDT if I were to comment about something specific that happened it's very likely that someone will bring up the state of the franchise in some capacity. For example, Engvall makes a mistake and I comment on that mistake. There will inevitably be a comment about how I need to enjoy that for the next seven years because Lamoriello stinks. If Engvall were to score a hat trick and the Islanders win the game there would still be tons of commentary about how it doesn't matter because Lamoriello stinks.
For those who hate Lamoriello and/or where the franchise is right now nothing matters other than that. They'll make every post, whether it's about a game, a player, a salary, a trade, etc. about Lamoriello and why he needs to go. They also don't want to allow anyone else to enjoy the experience of a game, a season, or a playoff birth because they've already come to the conclusion that this team isn't going to win so no fun should be had.
The team is currently fighting for a WC2 spot, is it wrong for anyone to want the team to get that spot? Are people not allowed to comment on the team battling for that spot and be optimistic about it? I don't think optimism or hopefulness warrants a constant barrage from people who dislike where the franchise is headed and it doesn't mean that those optimistic fans will be happy or view the season as a success if the team does simply make it to the playoffs. If the team makes the playoffs I'd be happy for more hockey and reserve judgement on successfulness based off what happens then. I could be wrong but I tend to think most people view things similarly. I don't think being optimistic makes you complicit in what's happening.
If you're not enjoying the games, the season, the GM, the decisions being made, why are you bothering to watch? There's a desire for people to be correct and on the right side of whatever the dichotomy is and I think it leads to a lot of "I told you so"-ing, especially in the world of sports. This is something I'm guilty of too, it's hard not to sometimes. We should try to not do that as much.
And to be perfectly clear, while I'm responding to you directly I do not mean for the bulk of this to be at you.