OT - NO POLITICS Off Topic Thread: Work sucks, I know

[Bruinaura]

Made it in to work today, despite my apartment parking lot still being packed with snow and ice. The side road to the office and our office parking lot were the same way. Pleased with how my car handled it, this is the first time I've had it in that kind of environment.

The test will be getting back home and up the hill in the apartment complex. Freezing rain is supposed to start around noon, I'm planning to leave early.

 

[KrejciMVP]

Pinellas County high school junior receives perfect score on SAT

Grayson Burns received a perfect score on the practice SAT and then a perfect 1600 score on the SAT this school year.

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[chizzler]

Since I was a victim of someone coming up and stealing our packages a few days ago by following the Amazon truck, I'll answer too. We only have 1 car. My father picks up my nephew every day from school. He enjoys it. He'll take him to go get food or an ice cream and then he'll take him home. He'll stay at my sisters house with him until she gets home from picking up her daughter from HS. My dad will then take her to drumming or to work because he enjoys it and keeps him busy.

Where does that leave my mom? Well she can't go out shopping now can she? And the weather was icy and snowy when she ordered these things. 1 happy birthday card. 2 pacifiers. and an outfit for my niece. Amazon had it delivered in 1 day so my mother could have the card in time.

Not everyone has access to going to the store. Also, nobody wants to go and risk getting any of the nasty sicknesses that are flying around. Especially my mom. So, Amazon is convenient for many. It helps Non able bodied disabled people get what they need. (Not saying my mom is disabled but the point still stands)

"Just go to the store" seems like a simple idea, but not everyone can.


How about these thieves should stop being assholes and stealing things that don't belong to them?

Thieves aren’t going to stop being assholes. Current society is out of control. If they were scared of the consequences, they wouldn’t do it. Society was ok before Amazon. People thought ahead. I hear your predicament, I’m not imune to issues either.

 

[NeelyDan]

got a new senior vp this week

she seems capable, and centered, and frankly, fun

feeling better about work

 

[Kate08]

got a new senior vp this week

she seems capable, and centered, and frankly, fun

feeling better about work

Who run the world?

Girls.

 

[TD Charlie]

Not gonna lie, I'm not doing well lately. I think I typed something similar recently and deleted it, today I did not. This has potential to go long

The house hunt is killing me. It's been just under a full year of searching, seen 50 properties now. Most recently a place in a lovely neighborhood, with a huge yard and inground pool, backyard access to a bike path that is a 15 minute bike to my kids house which is on the other end of the path. It was a raised ranch though (which I dont care for) and in need of a full rehab (which I am game for!)...but ultimately we decided it was going to be too small for us at the price it would be had for. I find myself regretting it though, cuz I know we could easily afford it and despite the size...it could have worked.

Back home at my house, the mouse situation has broken my spirit, almost completely. Downstairs, my father just lives in filth and despite having a beautiful new kitchen and bathroom, he's destroying it little by little cuz he cant take care of it. The plan, once I move out of the upstairs apartment, is to rent my unit, but I'll be living an hour away. Pops is unable to handle cleaning his own counters, so him tending to the needs of a tenant is out of the question. The thought of being a long distance landlord is literally keeping me up at night. I want to sell, but I know my father doesnt. Even more, theres nowhere for him to go right now. I feel very stuck.

Work is miserable. Normally I have a few projects bumping along, maybe 1, 2 tops that demand my attention semi frequently. Right now I have 4 going all at the same time and each of them would be the single most time consuming projects I've ever had all on their own.

My daughter also has the flu, and has been home with me all week. It's great. I love having her here and I love being able to nurse her along back to her usual self. But a lot of you know that caring for a flu-ridden 11 year old is a tall task on it's own, and really demands my full time and attention. Even though she's on the mend, she had coughing fits last night that kept me up for hours. I can't sleep knowing she's struggling in the next room over.

I am trying to focus on the good. It just gets super difficult these days when the bullshit just creeps in deeper and deeper. It will get better, it has to. One little thing at a time I suppose!

 

[Bruinaura]

Not gonna lie, I'm not doing well lately. I think I typed something similar recently and deleted it, today I did not. This has potential to go long

The house hunt is killing me. It's been just under a full year of searching, seen 50 properties now. Most recently a place in a lovely neighborhood, with a huge yard and inground pool, backyard access to a bike path that is a 15 minute bike to my kids house which is on the other end of the path. It was a raised ranch though (which I dont care for) and in need of a full rehab (which I am game for!)...but ultimately we decided it was going to be too small for us at the price it would be had for. I find myself regretting it though, cuz I know we could easily afford it and despite the size...it could have worked.

Back home at my house, the mouse situation has broken my spirit, almost completely. Downstairs, my father just lives in filth and despite having a beautiful new kitchen and bathroom, he's destroying it little by little cuz he cant take care of it. The plan, once I move out of the upstairs apartment, is to rent my unit, but I'll be living an hour away. Pops is unable to handle cleaning his own counters, so him tending to the needs of a tenant is out of the question. The thought of being a long distance landlord is literally keeping me up at night. I want to sell, but I know my father doesnt. Even more, theres nowhere for him to go right now. I feel very stuck.

Work is miserable. Normally I have a few projects bumping along, maybe 1, 2 tops that demand my attention semi frequently. Right now I have 4 going all at the same time and each of them would be the single most time consuming projects I've ever had all on their own.

My daughter also has the flu, and has been home with me all week. It's great. I love having her here and I love being able to nurse her along back to her usual self. But a lot of you know that caring for a flu-ridden 11 year old is a tall task on it's own, and really demands my full time and attention. Even though she's on the mend, she had coughing fits last night that kept me up for hours. I can't sleep knowing she's struggling in the next room over.

I am trying to focus on the good. It just gets super difficult these days when the bullshit just creeps in deeper and deeper. It will get better, it has to. One little thing at a time I suppose!

that is a lot on your plate! And it's hard when family members aren't doing well. I get it.

The right mouse-free house is out there for you!

 

[Bruinaura]

Left work early and made it back home. Even stopped at the store against my better judgment. Side roads and parking lots are a mess. Freezing rain has started. Going to be super cold tonight so it will probably be a sheet of ice in the morning.

I slipped more walking in the office parking lot than I did in my car. The car handled everything great. Just like a little tank. And I don't even have AWD. Very happy with it.

 

[Morris Wanchuk]

Not gonna lie, I'm not doing well lately. I think I typed something similar recently and deleted it, today I did not. This has potential to go long

The house hunt is killing me. It's been just under a full year of searching, seen 50 properties now. Most recently a place in a lovely neighborhood, with a huge yard and inground pool, backyard access to a bike path that is a 15 minute bike to my kids house which is on the other end of the path. It was a raised ranch though (which I dont care for) and in need of a full rehab (which I am game for!)...but ultimately we decided it was going to be too small for us at the price it would be had for. I find myself regretting it though, cuz I know we could easily afford it and despite the size...it could have worked.

Back home at my house, the mouse situation has broken my spirit, almost completely. Downstairs, my father just lives in filth and despite having a beautiful new kitchen and bathroom, he's destroying it little by little cuz he cant take care of it. The plan, once I move out of the upstairs apartment, is to rent my unit, but I'll be living an hour away. Pops is unable to handle cleaning his own counters, so him tending to the needs of a tenant is out of the question. The thought of being a long distance landlord is literally keeping me up at night. I want to sell, but I know my father doesnt. Even more, theres nowhere for him to go right now. I feel very stuck.

Work is miserable. Normally I have a few projects bumping along, maybe 1, 2 tops that demand my attention semi frequently. Right now I have 4 going all at the same time and each of them would be the single most time consuming projects I've ever had all on their own.

My daughter also has the flu, and has been home with me all week. It's great. I love having her here and I love being able to nurse her along back to her usual self. But a lot of you know that caring for a flu-ridden 11 year old is a tall task on it's own, and really demands my full time and attention. Even though she's on the mend, she had coughing fits last night that kept me up for hours. I can't sleep knowing she's struggling in the next room over.

I am trying to focus on the good. It just gets super difficult these days when the bullshit just creeps in deeper and deeper. It will get better, it has to. One little thing at a time I suppose!

From what I have gathered each town seems to have 1-2 realtors that really know the market and can get you in early if possible. Try looking into having 1 realtor per town instead of one for multiple towns? Might help you get a leg up.

Also, Portuguese people have a thing for raised ranches, just tell your girlfriend you will build a second kitchen on the lower level and she will be all over it. If not, her mom would agree!

Good luck! At least you don't have a buyers contingency.

 

[Terrier]

This $12.5M Arizona mansion comes with a fully functional hockey rink

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[NeelyDan]

Not gonna lie, I'm not doing well lately. I think I typed something similar recently and deleted it, today I did not. This has potential to go long

The house hunt is killing me. It's been just under a full year of searching, seen 50 properties now. Most recently a place in a lovely neighborhood, with a huge yard and inground pool, backyard access to a bike path that is a 15 minute bike to my kids house which is on the other end of the path. It was a raised ranch though (which I dont care for) and in need of a full rehab (which I am game for!)...but ultimately we decided it was going to be too small for us at the price it would be had for. I find myself regretting it though, cuz I know we could easily afford it and despite the size...it could have worked.

Back home at my house, the mouse situation has broken my spirit, almost completely. Downstairs, my father just lives in filth and despite having a beautiful new kitchen and bathroom, he's destroying it little by little cuz he cant take care of it. The plan, once I move out of the upstairs apartment, is to rent my unit, but I'll be living an hour away. Pops is unable to handle cleaning his own counters, so him tending to the needs of a tenant is out of the question. The thought of being a long distance landlord is literally keeping me up at night. I want to sell, but I know my father doesnt. Even more, theres nowhere for him to go right now. I feel very stuck.

Work is miserable. Normally I have a few projects bumping along, maybe 1, 2 tops that demand my attention semi frequently. Right now I have 4 going all at the same time and each of them would be the single most time consuming projects I've ever had all on their own.

My daughter also has the flu, and has been home with me all week. It's great. I love having her here and I love being able to nurse her along back to her usual self. But a lot of you know that caring for a flu-ridden 11 year old is a tall task on it's own, and really demands my full time and attention. Even though she's on the mend, she had coughing fits last night that kept me up for hours. I can't sleep knowing she's struggling in the next room over.

I am trying to focus on the good. It just gets super difficult these days when the bullshit just creeps in deeper and deeper. It will get better, it has to. One little thing at a time I suppose!

Hang in there my brother this too shall pass

 

[caz16]

Not gonna lie, I'm not doing well lately. I think I typed something similar recently and deleted it, today I did not. This has potential to go long

The house hunt is killing me. It's been just under a full year of searching, seen 50 properties now. Most recently a place in a lovely neighborhood, with a huge yard and inground pool, backyard access to a bike path that is a 15 minute bike to my kids house which is on the other end of the path. It was a raised ranch though (which I dont care for) and in need of a full rehab (which I am game for!)...but ultimately we decided it was going to be too small for us at the price it would be had for. I find myself regretting it though, cuz I know we could easily afford it and despite the size...it could have worked.

Back home at my house, the mouse situation has broken my spirit, almost completely. Downstairs, my father just lives in filth and despite having a beautiful new kitchen and bathroom, he's destroying it little by little cuz he cant take care of it. The plan, once I move out of the upstairs apartment, is to rent my unit, but I'll be living an hour away. Pops is unable to handle cleaning his own counters, so him tending to the needs of a tenant is out of the question. The thought of being a long distance landlord is literally keeping me up at night. I want to sell, but I know my father doesnt. Even more, theres nowhere for him to go right now. I feel very stuck.

Work is miserable. Normally I have a few projects bumping along, maybe 1, 2 tops that demand my attention semi frequently. Right now I have 4 going all at the same time and each of them would be the single most time consuming projects I've ever had all on their own.

My daughter also has the flu, and has been home with me all week. It's great. I love having her here and I love being able to nurse her along back to her usual self. But a lot of you know that caring for a flu-ridden 11 year old is a tall task on it's own, and really demands my full time and attention. Even though she's on the mend, she had coughing fits last night that kept me up for hours. I can't sleep knowing she's struggling in the next room over.

I am trying to focus on the good. It just gets super difficult these days when the bullshit just creeps in deeper and deeper. It will get better, it has to. One little thing at a time I suppose!

Life can be a bitch, no doubt. The last four years for me and my family have been absolute hell and we faced aging parents living in their own home, refusing to leave. The company I worked for forced me out after 37 years without a thank you card. Some of you may remember how my mother's situation ended, then father. Not to re-hash, just to say this - I never thought I would get through it, the darkest times of my life. While it isn't quite over, most of it is. I am healing, there is definite light at the end of the tunnel.

Hang in there, try to have faith that things have a way of working out. It is tough but reachable. The universe is amazing and everything will come together but we have to go through the hardest parts to get there. Nothing is set in stone and I believe you will pull out of this and be in a good place eventually. Lot of good vibes to you and healing to your daughter and father.

 

[Alicat]

Not gonna lie, I'm not doing well lately. I think I typed something similar recently and deleted it, today I did not. This has potential to go long

The house hunt is killing me. It's been just under a full year of searching, seen 50 properties now. Most recently a place in a lovely neighborhood, with a huge yard and inground pool, backyard access to a bike path that is a 15 minute bike to my kids house which is on the other end of the path. It was a raised ranch though (which I dont care for) and in need of a full rehab (which I am game for!)...but ultimately we decided it was going to be too small for us at the price it would be had for. I find myself regretting it though, cuz I know we could easily afford it and despite the size...it could have worked.

Back home at my house, the mouse situation has broken my spirit, almost completely. Downstairs, my father just lives in filth and despite having a beautiful new kitchen and bathroom, he's destroying it little by little cuz he cant take care of it. The plan, once I move out of the upstairs apartment, is to rent my unit, but I'll be living an hour away. Pops is unable to handle cleaning his own counters, so him tending to the needs of a tenant is out of the question. The thought of being a long distance landlord is literally keeping me up at night. I want to sell, but I know my father doesnt. Even more, theres nowhere for him to go right now. I feel very stuck.

Work is miserable. Normally I have a few projects bumping along, maybe 1, 2 tops that demand my attention semi frequently. Right now I have 4 going all at the same time and each of them would be the single most time consuming projects I've ever had all on their own.

My daughter also has the flu, and has been home with me all week. It's great. I love having her here and I love being able to nurse her along back to her usual self. But a lot of you know that caring for a flu-ridden 11 year old is a tall task on it's own, and really demands my full time and attention. Even though she's on the mend, she had coughing fits last night that kept me up for hours. I can't sleep knowing she's struggling in the next room over.

I am trying to focus on the good. It just gets super difficult these days when the bullshit just creeps in deeper and deeper. It will get better, it has to. One little thing at a time I suppose!

Sending you a giant hug. I hope your daughter gets better soon!

 

[Mione134]

Babysitting again today. Pugsley wanted to join on building blocks

 

[TD Charlie]

From what I have gathered each town seems to have 1-2 realtors that really know the market and can get you in early if possible. Try looking into having 1 realtor per town instead of one for multiple towns? Might help you get a leg up.

Also, Portuguese people have a thing for raised ranches, just tell your girlfriend you will build a second kitchen on the lower level and she will be all over it. If not, her mom would agree!

Good luck! At least you don't have a buyers contingency.

This explains why we have seen so many raised ranches...and at least half of them have 2 kitchens!

EDIT: On the 1-2 agent thing, the southcoast area is CRAWLING with realtors. Tons of younger agents came onto the scene since Covid, trying to make a quick buck. There are a couple agents I've crossed paths with many times over the last year and only two of them have been tolerable. The rest, slimeballs.

 

[Mione134]

And yes my Christmas tree is still up.

Probably will take it down next week. My niece loves it and it adds a great ambiance. If I had it my way, I'd keep it on all year round lol

 

[Gee Wally]

Not gonna lie, I'm not doing well lately. I think I typed something similar recently and deleted it, today I did not. This has potential to go long

The house hunt is killing me. It's been just under a full year of searching, seen 50 properties now. Most recently a place in a lovely neighborhood, with a huge yard and inground pool, backyard access to a bike path that is a 15 minute bike to my kids house which is on the other end of the path. It was a raised ranch though (which I dont care for) and in need of a full rehab (which I am game for!)...but ultimately we decided it was going to be too small for us at the price it would be had for. I find myself regretting it though, cuz I know we could easily afford it and despite the size...it could have worked.

Back home at my house, the mouse situation has broken my spirit, almost completely. Downstairs, my father just lives in filth and despite having a beautiful new kitchen and bathroom, he's destroying it little by little cuz he cant take care of it. The plan, once I move out of the upstairs apartment, is to rent my unit, but I'll be living an hour away. Pops is unable to handle cleaning his own counters, so him tending to the needs of a tenant is out of the question. The thought of being a long distance landlord is literally keeping me up at night. I want to sell, but I know my father doesnt. Even more, theres nowhere for him to go right now. I feel very stuck.

Work is miserable. Normally I have a few projects bumping along, maybe 1, 2 tops that demand my attention semi frequently. Right now I have 4 going all at the same time and each of them would be the single most time consuming projects I've ever had all on their own.

My daughter also has the flu, and has been home with me all week. It's great. I love having her here and I love being able to nurse her along back to her usual self. But a lot of you know that caring for a flu-ridden 11 year old is a tall task on it's own, and really demands my full time and attention. Even though she's on the mend, she had coughing fits last night that kept me up for hours. I can't sleep knowing she's struggling in the next room over.

I am trying to focus on the good. It just gets super difficult these days when the bullshit just creeps in deeper and deeper. It will get better, it has to. One little thing at a time I suppose!

geez Chuck, I got no words.

thats a ton to handle at one time. Hang in there bud.

 

[Alicat]

@TD Charlie If your daughter's cough gets worse see if she might be able to take cough pearls. it is a prescription but it is much easier to tolerate than cough syrup. Not sure if they give them to kiddos but they were a lifesaver at night when I had bronchitis last year

 

[eightspokedb]

Left work early and made it back home. Even stopped at the store against my better judgment. Side roads and parking lots are a mess. Freezing rain has started. Going to be super cold tonight so it will probably be a sheet of ice in the morning.

I slipped more walking in the office parking lot than I did in my car. The car handled everything great. Just like a little tank. And I don't even have AWD. Very happy with it.

Our local grocery store....

 

[BMC]

Thank God for Instacart. I don't what is going to happen with the weather this weekend so I did my grocery shopping today. I can't & won't go outside in bad weather. I am very careful going to work, I wear spikes on my shoes so I don't slip on the ice to get to the truck, then go down the hill to the office where the parking space is free of ice/snow. I brought some work home with me to do tomorrow.

I'm still having trouble with tiredness. There's so much to do & I can't do things as quickly, I have to take my time. I go to work all energized but by 1 I'm toast and have to go home. It's very frustrating!!!!

 

[caz16]

Our local grocery store....
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Beautiful icicles! I think they may need better insulation though.

 

[Bruinaura]

Glad I left when I did. County emergency management just posted that there have been numerous accidents this afternoon as a result of the weather.

 

[Ladyfan]

Not gonna lie, I'm not doing well lately. I think I typed something similar recently and deleted it, today I did not. This has potential to go long

The house hunt is killing me. It's been just under a full year of searching, seen 50 properties now. Most recently a place in a lovely neighborhood, with a huge yard and inground pool, backyard access to a bike path that is a 15 minute bike to my kids house which is on the other end of the path. It was a raised ranch though (which I dont care for) and in need of a full rehab (which I am game for!)...but ultimately we decided it was going to be too small for us at the price it would be had for. I find myself regretting it though, cuz I know we could easily afford it and despite the size...it could have worked.

Back home at my house, the mouse situation has broken my spirit, almost completely. Downstairs, my father just lives in filth and despite having a beautiful new kitchen and bathroom, he's destroying it little by little cuz he cant take care of it. The plan, once I move out of the upstairs apartment, is to rent my unit, but I'll be living an hour away. Pops is unable to handle cleaning his own counters, so him tending to the needs of a tenant is out of the question. The thought of being a long distance landlord is literally keeping me up at night. I want to sell, but I know my father doesnt. Even more, theres nowhere for him to go right now. I feel very stuck.

Work is miserable. Normally I have a few projects bumping along, maybe 1, 2 tops that demand my attention semi frequently. Right now I have 4 going all at the same time and each of them would be the single most time consuming projects I've ever had all on their own.

My daughter also has the flu, and has been home with me all week. It's great. I love having her here and I love being able to nurse her along back to her usual self. But a lot of you know that caring for a flu-ridden 11 year old is a tall task on it's own, and really demands my full time and attention. Even though she's on the mend, she had coughing fits last night that kept me up for hours. I can't sleep knowing she's struggling in the next room over.

I am trying to focus on the good. It just gets super difficult these days when the bullshit just creeps in deeper and deeper. It will get better, it has to. One little thing at a time I suppose!

You need a break...and sleep.

How old is your Dad? Is he mentally OK?

Call in someone to get rid of the mice.

Sending a hug. Good Luck!

 

[TD Charlie]

And yes my Christmas tree is still up.

Probably will take it down next week. My niece loves it and it adds a great ambiance. If I had it my way, I'd keep it on all year round lol

I'm a big fan of having the tree up into January,

You need a break...and sleep.

How old is your Dad? Is he mentally OK?

Call in someone to get rid of the mice.

Sending a hug. Good Luck!

i think I’ll have a chance at a better rest tonight. Thankfully

Pops is a fresh 63, mentally he’s good! Physically rough due to a bad ski injury 25 years ago. A little strange when i consider he was about my age when he had his injury.

 

[Bruinaura]