The fact of the matter is that it’s shoved down everyone’s throats no more than military appreciation, hockey fights cancer, player honors, etc it just happens to be the only one people have a problem with, which is some way shows the importance of the night, does it not?
Caveat for context: there is no question that this stuff gets taken too far and when it comes to social media, it gets radicalized/politicized/thrown way out of context, etc. some of that is without a doubt by design too. It becomes very difficult to have a discussion about some of the most basic principles about the topic. I wish it could be that simple, but nothing is these days