I disagree. McDermid went into that game with one focus. Respect? There was no respect even on his part as he slams the door pissed he didn't get what he wanted. There was no need for Rempe to fight the first shift when NYR were kinda' buzzing. They were never in a position where he should have answered the bell and he played it perfectly, until his elbow hit. But at the point it didn't even matter.
Well, then you disagree with The Code so there is no point in us discussing it, right?
Deslauriers, Martin, Reaves...these guys already got their money and also "don't have to fight". What the hell does Matt Martin gain by fighting a much bigger opponent in said opponent's first game? Nothing. Of course, veteran players gave Matt Martin his chance to show his toughness so Martin pays it back. That's part of The Code and being in the hockey enforcer fraternity.
If you are an enforcer and lay a huge hit like the one put on Bastian, a player on a huge rival no less, you are going to need to answer for it. Him declining MacDermid broke that part of The Code as well, so that is strike two.
Duck a fight all night, chicken wing a guy and then wave goodbye as you are escorted off the ice and don't have to answer for your actions? Clown show. Strike three.
There really is no valid argument for Rempe's actions last night, unless you don't know about or don't care about The Code. The problem is that Rempe is only a thing in the first place because of fighting so when he takes a big, steaming dump on the very thing that has given him notoriety, it's a rough look.
I say all of this as a guy that is super stoked that this whole Rempe thing is happening. All I can hope for is that he learns from this.