I don't actually. My phone is either in my pockets or plugged into the car for Apple CarPlay. The worst I do is that at a long red light, I may look at my messages, but the moment that light turns green that phone is going back into the console. I consider 'texting while driving' to be as bad as drunk driving.
I actually agree that alcohol may not even be the primary cause here. Some people drive like complete douchebags, and it reveals something rotten in their personalities. It's selfishness and utter lack of regard. It's never attractive to see in people, but it's particularly garish in situations where it puts lives at risk.