1You wouldn't need to turn it off, it's not on by default. It starts on Custom and you have to choose to play as Dark Urge as your background. It's on the same screen as where you can choose to play as Astarian or Shadowheart etc.
2I'm still mostly against recharging spells on short rests, but less than I was before. On one hand, it just makes the casters way better and takes away Warlock's one advantage over them. On the other hand, it's so easy to long rest that it's kind of already how it works, it just takes longer.
3I would be suspicious of people adding and fixing how spells work in the game, because typically random folks aren't as good at designing games as game designers
Also I have no idea what's wrong with concentration spells, they work exactly how they're supposed to. Unless it's just another pure buff for casters, who are already the best characters for most of the game (probably around level 5 or 6. Higher level spells are just so good.
4I think I finally have some level of magic item that is relevant to the character in every slot, but that took some time to get to that point. A few are still pretty simple +1 enchants.
5I have done almost no pickpocketing, especially since I killed my Rogue
Also I actually just did the nightsong quest this weekend. That's a longer trail that leads into act 2.
6I didn't really plan to kill all the goblins, but I made someone in the fort mad at me in a conversation and all hell broke loose