Melrose Munch
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Not 100 percent sure, but knowing Hockey Canada it probably does.do we know if the previous settlement has any NDA's?
Not 100 percent sure, but knowing Hockey Canada it probably does.do we know if the previous settlement has any NDA's?
rephraseI mean, "I fart in your general direction" can be an argument, too, I suppose.
...and yet no one ever wonders or asks if the doors were locked when a car or house gets broken into. Why? Because they understand that those measures have nothing to do with the discussion at hand and bringing it up suggests that the victim of the robbery could have some blame in what happened.So look - if you have sex with a woman without consent you are committing rape. 100%. The full moral blameworthiness of that act falls on you.
That being said - if you are a woman, you drink to excess, you don't have other people to look out for you - you are putting yourself in a vulnerable position. That does not mean it's okay for a man to rape you! But if you are a father you should tell your daughter to not drink to excess in a situation that could put you at risk of sexual assault.
I liken it to this - you shouldn't walk down the street in a bad neighbourhood flashing a wallet full of money. If you get robbed the responsibility is 100% on the robber. Morally you've done nothing wrong. But you did put yourself at risk.
It's the reason why cars and houses have locks.
Nope, I literally never said that. I get it though, trying to deflect after getting called out for spewing nonsense that you never bothered to look up just because it "felt right". At least you're ousting yourself for what you really are.You suggested that because victims suffer in silence that it is ok when someone makes a false accusation. We should "believe all victims" is often the tripe your lot trots out. Emotional nonsense.
When it comes to matters of the law and peoples freedom - emotion has no place. Bring the evidence please.
I will clue you in on something. Life isn't fair and people get away with stuff everyday. "It is better that 10 guilty people escape than one innocent person suffer".
Not for nothing, but calling these men (they were over 18 at the time) "boys" is doing the work of the defense as well. Like I said, it's conditioned.wouldn't that be a form of gatekeeping?
as much as we may disagree with those arguments, they do come into play
my POV is
a. ways to stop this from happening again
b. legal aspect and how that may play out.
also in the allegations even if it was consensual, the way the boys treated her is unpalatable to say the least. now that is a personal opinion.
men wouldn't do whats alleged, boys would IMONot for nothing, but calling these men (they were over 18 at the time) "boys" is doing the work of the defense as well. Like I said, it's conditioned.
As someone reading this exchange: this never happened. You're misunderstanding their post, deliberately or otherwise.You suggested that because victims suffer in silence that it is ok when someone makes a false accusation.
In a thread full of awful takes you seem to found the worst one that won't get deleted.men wouldn't do whats alleged, boys would IMO
Wow this thread went off the rails in a good way, that was really insightful and interesting.Spent time living in Costa Rica - ham is a regular part of pizza there to the point they don't even mention that it's part of it. Kind of a shock to discover about half a pound of the stuff beneath the cheese on what was supposed to be just a cheese pizza. Also funny when I would order "no Jamon" and the pizzeria would act like I was off my rocker.
Watmen wouldn't do whats alleged, boys would IMO
how is that a bad take?In a thread full of awful takes you seem to found the worst one that won't get deleted.
I suspect it's going to go something like this.Any new information or are we still going in circles?
Our society has plenty of men that do this shit and the fact that you sit here and undermine it is pretty crazy.how is that a bad take?
IMO a man is someone who wouldn't do something like this
I feel like they might take my degree back due to how much knowledge I lost by reading this threadHaving used it to complete your legal degree, will you be using this thread to start your own law library?
Same here man… I’m just glad I’m not involved lolSpeaking as an actual lawyer - I don't know nearly enough to actually have a take on the guilt or innocence of these players. You can't read a couple of news articles and suddenly have as much information as the court itself will hear.
yes men in the sense of the word thats a man as in something to aspire to, a real man would never treat a woman like that, only boys(in the sense of morality and maturity) would.
I think you're trying to be outraged for nothing hereOur society has plenty of men that do this shit and the fact that you sit here and undermine it is pretty crazy.
yes men in the sense of the word thats a man as in something to aspire to, a real man would never treat a woman like that, only boys(in the sense of morality and maturity) would.
[/QUOTE]It's probably time to reiterate that being declared not guilty doesn't mean the accused didn't do what he or she was charged of : It just means that it couldn't be proven beyond any reasonable doubt.
But I'll repeat, because that's a solid non-answer you've given there.
You wrote the following
The question was :
What does the bolded have to do with the charges that Alex Formenton are about to face?
Men do this stuff with alarming frequency. Continuing to call them boys is simply an extension of the "boys will be boys" rhetoric that makes other men comfortable with turning a blind eye - or in Hockey Canada's case, paying out hush money.men wouldn't do whats alleged, boys would IMO
when I said men wouldn't do that, that's how I meant itCool semantics bruv
You have thoughts that don't align with reality I guess. 0 outrage here.I think you're trying to be outraged for nothing here
I feel like they might take my degree back due to how much knowledge I lost by reading this thread
Same here man… I’m just glad I’m not involved lol
I was calling them boys almost in a derogatory fashionMen do this stuff with alarming frequency. Continuing to call them boys is simply an extension of the "boys will be boys" rhetoric that makes other men comfortable with turning a blind eye - or in Hockey Canada's case, paying out hush money.
men wouldn't do whats alleged, boys would IMO