You're focusing on false accusations as if they're the main issue of concern here and not SA, women are treated as if their accusations are false 9 times out of 10, you're not a hero for going out of your way to do soI'm not suggesting that the legal system doesn't fail people....SA victims or otherwise. I'm saying that it is better that 10 guilty people go free than a single innocent person be locked up. That and to simply wait for the legal system to play out before crucifying anyone.
my bad but I assumed calling them boys was moot in the legal sense since I thought all were 18 or olderBecause referring to them as boys minimizes the severity of their possible criminal act. I already said that, you said I was outraged.
No men are criminals, they're just boys in men's bodiesI mean - I get what you're saying, but our criminal courts are full of "men" who do deplorable things.
The presumption of innocence is a legal fiction. It's an important fiction, don't get me wrong, but it only applies to the courts itself.
In a criminal trial the test is "proof beyond a reasonable doubt". A judge can be 98% sure that the Accused person did the thing, but if they have a 2% doubt they must acquit. (note - no court will ever use numbers in that fashion - used for illustration only).
But that doesn't mean the rest of the world should use that same standard. Hell the courts themselves don't use that same standard! The test in a civil trial is only "proof on a balance of probabilities". So 51% sure / 49% not sure is enough. This is how, famously, OJ Simpson was acquitted at his criminal trial, but held liable on his civil trial.
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assuming the the defendants end up on the stand, how much latitude would the Crown get in challenging their claims of getting consent, questioning player 1's reason for being afraid she would go to the police, etc
In terms of teaching your kids, absolutely. In the context of an alleged sexual assault after the fact, what purpose does it serve other than to direct responsibility to the victim?No, with respect I don't think so.
Two different things can be true at the same time. "Men should not rape women" and "women should avoid putting themselves in vulnerable situations" can both be true.
gimme a break, leave my balls alone for at least 1 page lolNo men are criminals, they're just boys in men's bodies
You're focusing on false accusations as if they're the main issue of concern here and not SA, women are treated as if their accusations are false 9 times out of 10, you're not a hero for going out of your way to do so
Mostly Men's Rights Activistshow did this reach 115 pages
No, with respect I don't think so.
Two different things can be true at the same time. "Men should not rape women" and "women should avoid putting themselves in vulnerable situations" can both be true.
Ask yourself why you instinctively gravitate towards false accusation when the overwhelming data from other instances and evidence in this case in particular point towards that not being the caseDon't want to be a hero - if it seems as though I am focusing on the false accusation angle a bit much, its because that is what was jumped on. I also mentioned that her accusations could be totally valid several times....but people don't get emotional when their bias is confirmed and it doesn't get as many replies.
So look - if you have sex with a woman without consent you are committing rape. 100%. The full moral blameworthiness of that act falls on you.
That being said - if you are a woman, you drink to excess, you don't have other people to look out for you - you are putting yourself in a vulnerable position. That does not mean it's okay for a man to rape you! But if you are a father you should tell your daughter to not drink to excess in a situation that could put you at risk of sexual assault.
I liken it to this - you shouldn't walk down the street in a bad neighbourhood flashing a wallet full of money. If you get robbed the responsibility is 100% on the robber. Morally you've done nothing wrong. But you did put yourself at risk.
It's the reason why cars and houses have locks.
I don't think its fair to characterize this as good side/ bad side. Everyone is so desperate to find sides that IMO valid points re alcohol, vulnerable situations etc are automatically seen as supporting 1 side when its about discussing ways to avoid something like this in the futureMostly Men's Rights Activists
Did you even try to read what he said or what lmfaoIf you think a girl getting black out drunk is a valid risk factor for her to get raped by a bunch of dudes then you’re all mixed up.
If you think a girl getting black out drunk is a valid risk factor for her to get raped by a bunch of dudes then you’re all mixed up.
Sporadic articles in the thread. The only real news are warrants issued for 5 former 2018 Canada WJC players. Formenton surrenders and is charged. Westhead tweet in regards to varying level of charges may be laid in case including gang rape and forceable confinement.How many pages back do I need to go to find some actual news with a source?
I might as well be scrolling through Twitter comments.
wait a min, it is a risk factor, rape stats show this to be the case.If you think a girl getting black out drunk is a valid risk factor for her to get raped by a bunch of dudes then you’re all mixed up.
how did this reach 115 pages
What cotton candy world do you live in?
If you think a girl getting black out drunk is a valid risk factor for her to get raped by a bunch of dudes then you’re all mixed up.
but when you understand that predators exist and would target those people it seems relevant no?imagine thinking that getting drunk at a bar is a risk factor for getting raped
Maybe in the 1940s when you were a teenager
Ask yourself why you instinctively gravitate towards false accusation when the overwhelming data from other instances and evidence in this case in particular point towards that not being the case
There’s a difference between risk factor and defense? You understand that right?imagine thinking that getting drunk at a bar is a risk factor for getting raped
Maybe in the 1940s when you were a teenager