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MasterofGrond

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Feb 13, 2009
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That sucks man. It's absolutely awful when you're looking for a new job. I just went through some of the same shit myself. I had been looking since August, and finally got an offer in mid-March, and started a few weeks ago. Some horror stories from my job search:

I went through 8 interviews over 3 days with one company (that I had worked at before) only to find out that the job had been basically promised to an internal candidate, and I had no chance from the start. Why waste everyone's time?

Another company tried to interview me for a different position (which I was not interested in) than the one I applied for, then tried to gaslight me that I had applied to that one.

Another company had me interview with the hiring manager and 4 others, and told me that I did great, they loved my qualifications, and they would be fools not to hire me... but that they would be passing anyway because I didn't give some bigwig a "warm and fuzzy" feeling. I'm a data scientist, not a kindergarten teacher, so what the f*** does "warm and fuzzy" have to do with it?

The company I finally landed with was responsive and transparent, interviewed me for positions I was interested in, gave me timely and honest feedback, and made a strong offer which I accepted. Incredible how many places can't do that.
WOOF

Congrats on the job, though. I've also been on that grind for a long time, and it's just enervating,

Got some good news though. Just got off the phone with my other good opportunity, and they're flying me out to SF some time in the next couple weeks. Very different position, at a tiny company, but since my hiring manager is the CEO it's been pretty straightforward, lol.
 

Saugus

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Last paragraph is spot on. My wife has been looking for a job since December immediately after she started her new one, wound up quitting her job in January since she was on the verge of a mental breakdown, and is now finally waiting on a formal offer from a place she really likes.

The lack of responsiveness from various HR reps has been infuriating. She followed up with one that we felt good about but had ghosted her for about a week, and they responded "we'll pass" as if she asked her if she wanted dessert.

If you're hiring for a role and you like someone, just f***ing hire them. Don't make it such a production.

I don’t even mind those so much. If I never get a response, whatever. If I get a summary rejection, fine. At least I know where I stand, and I don’t get my hopes up.

It’s worse when they take you a few more steps down the path, then ghost you. Or they have you go through the whole thing, only to find out at the end that you never had a chance. That’s the worst.
 

MartyOwns

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