Dr Pepper
Registered User
Kind my point, Westhead, Strang etc dont suck up, and tells the story and just dont give a d..n
Which makes it all the more surprising that Westhead is with TSN, given their infatuation with all things WJC.
Kind my point, Westhead, Strang etc dont suck up, and tells the story and just dont give a d..n
Do we know the first guy invited the others for this purpose?
Don't forget, these are 17/18 yr olds. Hotel rooms are one of the few places they can hook up.
It wouldn't shock me if the events unfolded like this: The others came up to the room for some sort of afterparty, and/or knew and wanted to prank/surprise the first guy. Then the first guy probably had an "oh shit, the boys are here for the afterparty! throw some clothes on!" moment. Then the 9 of them probably hung out for a while, had some drinks, while things gradually escalated to a gross level. Probably starting with random ass grabbings, then "you should make out with him", then you should take your top off, then you should do x to that guy, then to the point where it was a full on gang rape. We know these events took place over the course of a few hours until 4am, and some guys left early, before partaking in any of these acts, probably in disgust.
It's important to understand how sexual assault often takes place. People always assume it's like in the movies, where rapists are aggressive and physically restrain the victim. Often times, that's not the reality. It often starts very gradually, until the victim is uncomfortable, withdraws consent (assuming she gave consent), but the aggressor(s) don't stop.
I saw some people in this thread talk about golf clubs.... I just don't think that necessarily means anything. It could have been related to the assault, but I think it's far more likely it had nothing to do with it.
It's almost like "the media" isn't made up of 1 single person but by a large, diverse group, which is constantly changing.Great job by the media suddenly dredging up a sexual assault story from 2003. As if anyone with a brain can't see that they're been enabling this kind of behavior all along.
Yeah, kind of like hockey players.It's almost like "the media" isn't made up of 1 single person but by a large, diverse group, which is constantly changing.
Considering how you keep saying how a hockey forum knows Jack shit, I would think a lawyer would know more than you.
Westhead isn't even a hockey reporter though, he just kept getting thrown into these things and told about them as a reporter who is trusted because he broke prior similar situations open. You can't just compare him and say other hockey reporters don't do x, well that's not the same job.Kind my point, Westhead, Strang etc dont suck up, and tells the story and just dont give a d..n
Great job by the media suddenly dredging up a sexual assault story from 2003. As if anyone with a brain can't see that they're been enabling this kind of behavior all along.
Touche! 19 years later, it seems they are.Well, some folks could have been holding out until all the facts are on the table...
This. 99% of sexual assaults are not like what you see in Law & Order SVU.
The perpetrator is usually someone the victim knows and likes. Sometimes, a person consents to one act but not to something that happens next. Afterwards, it's easy for victims to start thinking, "well... was it my fault? Did I lead him on?" That's why it can be so traumatic and difficult for those who were assaulted to actually come forward. They go through an incredibly complex set of emotions that would be hard for anyone to navigate, let alone someone who's in their late teens or early twenties.
It's also common for the perpetrators to misread "signals". They don't go into a situation with the intention of rape or assault. And when the person they're with says, "I'm not sure about this" instead of "stop", they keep going. They assault someone without realizing they're assaulting someone.
The theme from the text messages is so incredibly common, it's crazy and scary. "I felt taken advantage of". "But I thought you were having fun." This happens more than people know. It happens every single night.
That's why it's so important for there to be a much louder and in-depth conversation about consent in schools, and kids need to start being taught these concepts when they're 12 or 13.
Honestly, while Hockey Canada acted abhorrently here, I think the Federal Government needs to take control of this. There needs to be a national curriculum around sexuality and consent taught to every single kid in this country, and one that's tailored for today's age.
I don't even know why you are quoting the post I presented.
Option A the courts, a defined legal process
Option B, the court of public opinion, in this case HF Boards
One doesn't need to be a lawyer to know which option is "better"
Maybe instead of trying to score points you keep up with the conversation?
Well, some folks could have been holding out until all the facts are on the table...
Can't wait to hear Colaiacovo's take on this, next week on TSN 1050 here in Toronto.
Should have lots to say.
I don't even know why you are quoting the post I presented.
Option A the courts, a defined legal process
Option B, the court of public opinion, in this case HF Boards
One doesn't need to be a lawyer to know which option is "better"
Maybe instead of trying to score points you keep up with the conversation?
25 out of every 1,000 sexual assault cases lead to jail time. There is a reason women don't come forward and it's because the justice system fails them time and time again.Neither option is better than the other. Both are important.
Option A has such a high threshold of proof required that option B is often necessary to enact the societal change required to stop these things from happening.
Option B has a higher success rate than option A has ever had. The only reason any of this is carrying weight is because of public pressure, not the justice system. Same with the Blackhawks scandal, same with whatever the next terrible story is.I don't even know why you are quoting the post I presented.
Option A the courts, a defined legal process
Option B, the court of public opinion, in this case HF Boards
One doesn't need to be a lawyer to know which option is "better"
Maybe instead of trying to score points you keep up with the conversation?
I know, that's why I'm saying option B is important. We need to shine a light on these types of events and publicly shame those people if the law can't do it.25 out of every 1,000 sexual assault cases lead to jail time. There is a reason women don't come forward and it's because the justice system fails them time and time again.
The system is not set up to protect the weak, far from it, it is set up to protect those who set it up in the first place.
The Criminal Justice System: Statistics | RAINN
The majority of perpetrators of sexual assault will not go to prison.www.rainn.org
Where did I question her character?
25 out of every 1,000 sexual assault cases lead to jail time. There is a reason women don't come forward and it's because the justice system fails them time and time again.
The system is not set up to protect the weak, far from it, it is set up to protect those who set it up in the first place.
The Criminal Justice System: Statistics | RAINN
The majority of perpetrators of sexual assault will not go to prison.www.rainn.org
Consider the threshold for both. What do you make of a system that places more consideration on false claims than true claims, especially when all statistical information available for the better part of 75 years shows false claims amount to the number of fingers on my hand? It certainly shows where the system's true concern lays.I see it as set up to make as few catastrophic mistakes as possible. The social, political and monetary penalties for false imprisonment are so great that very few are willing to risk being responsible for it if there is any kind of hole in evidence.
Not educated on this, just my gut feeling. Seems like a liability to prosecute or even pass a guilty verdict if you don't have DNA, multiple corroborations or some kind of video evidence.