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GordonHowe

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I’m sure the Bride of Chucky is a lovely woman, so this isn’t necessarily about her, per se.

One reason I changed my career from one that deals with the public to one that does not is the pretentiousness of supposed “VIPs.” Get over yourselves, people.

If I were the Bride of Chucky, I wouldn’t tell ANYONE who I was, and see how the filthy unwashed masses are treated by the staff at hubby’s company. If I received good customer service, I’d commend the staff accordingly. If I were treated poorly…

You seem like a pretty good dude, @GordonHowe. I can’t imagine how you would be a bother to anyone.

Between you and me, I am not a pretty good dude. Actually, I'm a terrible person.

More, I've been known to shoot my mouth off about Jeremy Jacobs on occasion. Which, as you can imagine, is a no no in this particular position.

In the event, I'm fairly certain Charlie's better half has an inkling regarding public perceptions of her father-in-law.
 

shelbysdad

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As part of my packing and decluttering before the move, I'm going through a couple of boxes of mom's things that I haven't gone through since she died last year.

I loved my mom, but oh my stars, that woman kept every greeting card ever given to any member of our family for any occasion, ever.

I'm sorry mom, but that card you gave me for my third birthday? I appreciate it, I really do... but it's going in the trash now. Along with the hundred other such cards that were with it.

What makes this harder is I've had to really kind of glance through everything because with her dementia she used to stash all sorts of things in random places. I came across an unused gift certificate for Longhorn steakhouse for $50. Have to look it up and see if it's still good.
My father in law had a book....I'm dead now what...he never filled it out

He said oh and there is a life insurance policy no one would know about.... thanks for that....we have to wait for a bill to come in I guess
 
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Bruinaura

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My father in law had a book....I'm dead now what...he never filled it out

He said oh and there is a life insurance policy no one would know about.... thanks for that....we have to wait for a bill to come in I guess
I've seen advertisements for Nokbox.... which is basically a box with a bunch of folders pre-categorized where you can list all the stuff your family needs to know in the event of your death. I've debated doing something similar but when I pass there's not going to be much left for anybody lol. And likely no family who is going to want any of my stuff.

Someone here will have to take on cookie duty, though.
 
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Got lucky that the storms stayed to the north and east of us. There are so many people whose cars were totaled and roofs destroyed by baseball sized hail.

We got word that this chance for storms was increasing at around noon so I was able to move my car undercover and based on timing of the storm, I was able to move an appointment. I got caught in the nasty storms on Sunday and I didn’t want to chance it.

It was wild to see a small portion of the storm cloud from one window and the sun out of another. I walked outside and it was very dark on the other side of the complex.

Mother Nature really showed her many sides tonight. It is a reminder of how beautiful it can be one minute and damaging the next.

This was tonight’s sunset from my living room.
 

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Alicat

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I've seen advertisements for Nokbox.... which is basically a box with a bunch of folders pre-categorized where you can list all the stuff your family needs to know in the event of your death. I've debated doing something similar but when I pass there's not going to be much left for anybody lol. And likely no family who is going to want any of my stuff.

Someone here will have to take on cookie duty, though.
After everything with my dad, my mom hired an estate lawyer and got everything together. The lawyer goes over her binder every 6 months and re-issues them when laws change. It was hard to listen to but if anything positive was coming out of my dad’s sickness and subsequent accident that took him from us, it is that my mom has carried on his promise to take care of his girls and has a plan in place. I hope to have 20+ more years with her.
 

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Does anyone have any good advice on how to tackle a mass of family photographs? I think my Mom was trying to sort them out before she died but they are a bigger mess now than they were before she started. I have put them in a big box, they are all different sizes because they go back to the 1920s so albums are not really an option for many.
 
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Does anyone have any good advice on how to tackle a mass of family photographs? I think my Mom was trying to sort them out before she died but they are a bigger mess now than they were before she started. I have put them in a big box, they are all different sizes because they go back to the 1920s so albums are not really an option for many.
I have the same exact question. I already had several boxes of my own and got a bunch more when mom died. First I need to go through and toss all the duplicates because we always ordered double prints. :help: Beyond that it feels like mission impossible. It will be a huge project no matter what.

Sorry I'm not any help lol
 

BigBadBruins7708

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Does anyone have any good advice on how to tackle a mass of family photographs? I think my Mom was trying to sort them out before she died but they are a bigger mess now than they were before she started. I have put them in a big box, they are all different sizes because they go back to the 1920s so albums are not really an option for many.

it'll take some time, but 1st thing I'd do is scan all of them so you have a digital version for preservation
 

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Does anyone have any good advice on how to tackle a mass of family photographs? I think my Mom was trying to sort them out before she died but they are a bigger mess now than they were before she started. I have put them in a big box, they are all different sizes because they go back to the 1920s so albums are not really an option for many.

You might want to donate the oldest photos to your local historical society. This is what we did after going through my parents' photos- they had inherited photos from my grandparents along with the ones they had taken. Our society was delighted to get them as they depict a time gone by.
 
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Does anyone have any good advice on how to tackle a mass of family photographs? I think my Mom was trying to sort them out before she died but they are a bigger mess now than they were before she started. I have put them in a big box, they are all different sizes because they go back to the 1920s so albums are not really an option for many.
My Dad loved photography. He had a darkroom in our basement. He also had 40 thousand slides (starting in WW2) all in cases numbered and cataloged. I have all of them. My sis has all of his black and white photos

Someday (he has been gone since 2003) I will go through and toss some of them.
 
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GordonHowe

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I have the same exact question. I already had several boxes of my own and got a bunch more when mom died. First I need to go through and toss all the duplicates because we always ordered double prints. :help: Beyond that it feels like mission impossible. It will be a huge project no matter what.

Sorry I'm not any help lol
Captain Obvious says, to begin anyway, get rid of the duplicates and pictures you have no use for; label several boxes for several subjects and get a handle on it that way.

You may or may not have a photographer friend who can make a scrapbook for you out of the surviving pictures, which you might distribute to friends and family. Eventually. This is what my friend Lyn did for my family.

Good luck,

🧹 🧹👀
 
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Bruinaura

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Hurricane Helene is shaping up to be a whopper.

I've lived through numerous hurricanes but if I was anywhere near that one I'd be on my way out of town
 
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I've seen advertisements for Nokbox.... which is basically a box with a bunch of folders pre-categorized where you can list all the stuff your family needs to know in the event of your death. I've debated doing something similar but when I pass there's not going to be much left for anybody lol. And likely no family who is going to want any of my stuff.

Someone here will have to take on cookie duty, though.
I got this. Highly recommend it.
In addition to the folders, there’s a lot of guidance on how/what to collect for your next of kin.
 

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Hurricane Helene is shaping up to be a whopper.

I've lived through numerous hurricanes but if I was anywhere near that one I'd be on my way out of town
Looks like its taking almost the exact same track that Michael did back in 2018. We've got a place in Miramar Beach and got all the patio furniture inside today. Hopefully the track holds to the model and it misses us to the east one more time. I feel bad for the people east of Panama City. They literally just finished rebuilding after Michael.
 
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Looks like its taking almost the exact same track that Michael did back in 2018. We've got a place in Miramar Beach and got all the patio furniture inside today. Hopefully the track holds to the model and it misses us to the east one more time. I feel bad for the people east of Panama City. They literally just finished rebuilding after Michael.
Yep. Living on the coast is great.... until it really, really sucks.
 
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Just called my stepdad to see if he's keeping an eye on that soon to be hurricane headed for somewhere on the Gulf Coast. He said "no, at the moment I'm in the ER." :oops:

He was in his truck this afternoon doing about 35 mph when a guy cut into his lane doing close to 60 and essentially pitted him, causing his truck to roll. Thankfully he appears to have escaped major injury, they did all sorts of tests and are waiting on results for any head/neck injuries. For now it's just some lacerations, and soreness from the seatbelt.

Truck (a GMC Canyon) of course is a total loss but that's the least concern. I'm impressed with the safety features that hopefully prevented any major injuries. I don't know anything about the other driver or if he was impaired in any way or just an idiot, or whether he is insured.

He said it happened right in front of the hospital, and I said if you're going to get in a crash I guess that's a great place for it to happen. He said it took a long time for the ambulance to get there lol.

Anyway, he is going to be sore tomorrow, I'm sure, but I'm glad he's alive.

Edit: for a rollover it held up pretty well, cab intact.

Appropriate billboard in the second pic lol
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I hope he called 850(INJURED). All joking aside, it's great that he's okay. Simply too many maniacs and people more interested in everything BUT driving properly.
 
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