I am really sorry to hear this. Your positive attitude is wonderful. I am glad you are back home where you want to be. Take care, my friend.
Thank you, Carol.
It was a bad time, and I've had a few.
No need for sorry. As noted, I am extremely lucky and exceptionally blessed, particularly in my family and the few I call friend.
FWIW, I have found that the best place from which to operate, indeed the only place, is the present.
Not the past. Not the future.
"Living" in the past, especially relative to regret, will keep you stuck and get you nowhere.
Certainly, we all have to plan for the future. That is a practical approach.
However, in Western society, we are conditioned to
worry about the future.
Many worry incessantly about money concerns, of course. They also worry about where life will take them, if they will succeed in material fashion and be loved, respected and happy.
All of this is understandable. Yet it's important not to allow our anxieties about the future and our place within in it to overwhelm that very future, as obsessive fears go jangling outward willy nilly.
I've said it before:
*This is it.*
Now is all the time you will ever have.
Life is contingent. Life is transient. Life is fragile. Life is suffering. Life is also beautiful.
Without succumbing to the morbid, you could die tomorrow.
You cannot say. You do not know.
As an agnostic raised Catholic, there are certain things I believe. But as long as I walk the earth, I will never
know.
And, it's completely okay not to know. In fact, if you can grasp the idea, not knowing whether God exists, the true nature of reality, what will happen, et. al. can be profoundly freeing.
Rather than freak out at the prospect, acceptance of the fact that you do not know the answers to the above can, if understood properly, engender a lightness of spirit and acceptance of "what is."
So I don't know. So what?
I much prefer this humble admission to an obsession with such matters or a compulsive need to be "right." We all want to be right. But it ain't that important, and ultimately it doesn't matter much.
Accepting the vulnerability of life opens the heart and mind to an understanding of how precious it can be.
And this realization leads directly to the elevation of gratitude, appreciation, humility and compassion in one's life.
Some of you are old enough to remember that old Coke ad.
"It's The Real Thing." Well, that's the real thing.
That is my prolix piece for today.
Thank you for indulging it,
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