One of the things to consider is that for better or worse, players tends to operate under a code.
I'm not condoning that approach, or saying that it's always right, but that is something that is typically ingrained into players from an early age. As such, anything short or murder or other heinous actions tends to not be talked about outside of the confines of the organization.
I will tell you there are a lot of things I know from the different places I've worked and clients I've worked with. I wish I could un-know a great deal of it. I think people would probably be surprised by a lot of the stuff that coaches do, and the knowledge that what Babcock did, though not common, isn't unheard of either. Ditto for what Bill Peters did.
I will also tell you that goes double and triple for many of the athletes that people idolize and root for. I can even begin to tell you how weird it can be to read about how crappy people think a certain player is, while thinking someone else seems like a pretty cool dude. And it's hard to respond to some of those comments because I can't be like "Yeah, this dude went out of his way to make sure every one of his teammates was able to get home to see their families when their ride broke down, but you think he's a prick. Meanwhile, this guy liked to roofie women at bars in every city in which he played."
There's A LOT of stuff that goes on behind the scenes. And for better or worse, there's a lot of compliance to keep it out of the public --- not unlike what a lot of individuals. including us, do in our daily lives.