I’m thinking there is a bot of truth in both. I watch a lot of amateur hockey. Play occasionally in a geezer pick up league and spend time around the rink. Things have changed dramatically over the years. 50 years ago the key was finding ice. After the organized team activities we all went to open skate, or met up on a frozen pond for shinny. All ages. We walked to the open air rinks in Caz and Houghton parks. Skill growth was a component of how much time on ice and repetitions one could get. And no one would think of trying a Michigan unless you were absolutely sure you could pull it off and would answer the bell if someone took umbrage at being schooled.
Now the rinks have “performance” studios, skills development offices, VR training centers and many are individual based. If parents have the means, the kids have access to training never dreamed of before. Bit they learn these skills in the context of “their” game not a team focus. You can see the difference between the kids that can take advantage of these resources and those that can’t. You can also see it in the crowd that follows the teams.
Long winded way of stating the game has gone from one for the masses ( though it was always expensive) to one on par with skiing or golf. Expensive to enter and more expensive to gain the skill to be a professional at it. The attitude of entitlement and privilege follows. I went to a u14 tourney over xmas and was astonished of the lack of cohesiveness of the majority of teams until I was informed that most were put together the week before from all over the country. Most had never played together in a league setting. They were 14 yo barnstormers. I get what Torts is saying. I also think most fans who are not involved in youth hockey fail to realize that the NA kids are seldom your working class heroes who rose to the top, but privileged kids who feel entitled to success because that is all they know. That is a broad brush admittedly, but I do not see it changing. The cost of entry is only going u. There will be no Joe Mullins from Hell’s Kitchen learning on roller skates and getting a scholarship to BC and the HOF. Different times indeed.