Look, the in depth conversation on this subject regarding the accident never ends well. I don’t discount the fact that they were very close and he was right there. I’m not saying he should be “ok”.
What I will continue to say is, I don’t think he was a better or different goalie before or after the accident.
That said, what about all the other “everyday people” who were also there who witnessed this?? Many who probably feel much more “responsible” for what happened along with being there (I’m assuming ) rendering first aid afterwards.
I hate to go into it like this, but, think about those other people there that night, people everyday who are in car accidents and all types of different things, all over the country/world, many have everyday jobs that will never make in a lifetime that Elvis makes in 1 year.
I’m not saying he should be “ok”. But, if he’s not “ok”, he shouldn’t be playing goalie for the CBJ. You have to be extremely composed and be strong mentally to be an NHL goalie. If the death of Kivlenieks is the reason for him being so bad, ok, it doesn’t change the fact. The CBJ organization can’t stop working correctly to wait for Elvis’ mental health.
Many people who have dealt with trauma, at a young age or not, USE ORGANIZED SPORTS as an ESCAPE from the negative aspects of “real life”, like death, and overall stress as a whole. Many people pay hundreds/thousands of dollars a year to play sports, as it’s therapeutic for them.
Elvis is extremely lucky to have the profession he has, and yes, lucky to make the money he makes. The entire reason these guys get paid the amount of money they do is because they have to deal with things, physically and emotionally, that “regular people” can’t or shouldn’t be looked at to deal with.
Sincerely, not a terrible person.