Apples to oranges I suppose. I'll give you the 22-23 Selke votes because those are a big deal and tough to quantify in value. Same with playing the PK. That obviously brings value assuming the PK is solid.
Were comparing a 30-60-90 player to a 40-60-100/50-50-100 player. Does the defensive game make up the difference in the offensive game? Maybe, but at best IMO you can argue they're even overall and more often than not, the tie breaker will go to offensive production.
And sadly not to beat a dead horse, but playoff production is there. Career .87 and losing vs 1.24 and won.
Obviously context matters, but if two players are very similar, the edge goes to playoff production. Bedard and Dahlin also arent fair examples since they havent made the playoffs. Marner has been there 8 years in a row now.