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rfournier103

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I despise flying....the whole wait at the airport, and I guess the not being in control of my destiny.
I hear you. I don’t like roller coasters either.
Heights I am mostly ok with, but now at 60 there are times when nope, I'm not getting up there (since I am carrying 4" PVC also) find someone else

Same with crawlspaces.....If I cant sit upright....not happening (unless I really need $ since those are jobs where I can make 4-5K in two days.)
I hear you there.

Are you a plumber or an electrician?
 

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I hear you. I don’t like roller coasters either.

I hear you there.

Are you a plumber or an electrician?
self employed radon mitigation...for crawlspaces I need to install a membrane and glue and pin it to the walls, along with taping around everything to make it air tight so its in there all day for a couple days. A difficult part is moving the dang thing around to keep it straight.
Also a massage appointment after that

The membrane gets pinned to the wall with plastic fasteners... Drill a 1/4" hole....one day... I smashed my finger withe the hammer drill....wait where is all this blood coming from.....oh my finger....why is it coming out both sides? Looked down, drill bit had broke, and got shoved into my finger and out the other side....took a trip to the hospital after that....

Texted wife.....she says what did you do now
Texted daughter....her response.....send pictures !
 
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1. Has the threat of 'terrorism' ever changed your travel plans? Is it something you dwell on while you travel?

I have always hated NYC which is closest to us. Now I am even less inclined to go there

2. Do you think 10 million dollars could buy you happiness? Think about the specific wording of this question.

As a stress relief and being able to do what I want....heck yeah. I would be at our soon to be built house in Maine fishing every day possible while my bride paddle boards with our Cavalier. Also would take of my daughter and son.

3. Have you ever stolen anything? Tell us about it. CLEANSE THYSELF, MY LOVES,

Not on purpose, the typical wow they forgot to charge me for this item

4. What was the best party you've ever been to? What happened there?

OMG....here we go and it's not even close.

Our wedding reception. It was at a venue on the Hudson River that also had a petting zoo (that comes in later)

A centerpiece caught on fire, we put it out with beer. I broke my toasting glass stem....we faked it

So everyone was feeling no pain, and at the end there was a traveling karaoke guy who was scheduled to play there.....we decided to stay there and drink since the venue said if we stayed free drinks for the wedding party all night.

Our drinks of the night were Mind Erasers and Kamikazes. The karaoke guy had everyone dancing and singing. During American Pie, my brides friend had mini flags up her nose leading the way.


I looked over at the bar...Brides cousin sitting at the bar...with a goat he had brought in from the petting zoo that he decided should join the party.

Several of my friends said they had to stop and (you know) before they could even make it to the hotel.

My new FIL had to stop along the road and fell down a bank. New MIL and SIL had to flag down a motorcycle group at 3 AM to help get him back in the car. He spent the night sleeping in his tux in the front yard since he couldn't make it into the house.

I told the bride the next day I don't even remember driving to the hotel which was very close....she said....you didn't.

Next day drove to Bar Harbor. Stopped in Bath Maine where I learned I can't eat Maine clams...barely made it to our room where I spent the entire night with my butt in the can and my face in the sink. Good thing they were very close together. It was flying both ends. Still can't eat Maine clams and have given up.

Celebrating 30 years next August, and moving to Maine 2025

5. What would you say is your most prominent defense mechanism?

Not getting drawn in

Great story :)
 

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I wonder if fear of flying depends a lot on how old you are the first time you fly? When we moved to Canada, I was 9 years old, no fear whatsoever. My mother was a basket case on the flight (her first as well) and even that didn't bother me. I was more upset when my Spirograph wheels were spilled all over the floor and rolled under all the seats...lol I never did find the tiniest one.

I have a lot of other fears and am quite anxious but I wonder if I don't fear flying because of my age when I first went on a plane.
 

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I wonder if fear of flying depends a lot on how old you are the first time you fly? When we moved to Canada, I was 9 years old, no fear whatsoever. My mother was a basket case on the flight (her first as well) and even that didn't bother me. I was more upset when my Spirograph wheels were spilled all over the floor and rolled under all the seats...lol I never did find the tiniest one.

I have a lot of other fears and am quite anxious but I wonder if I don't fear flying because of my age when I first went on a plane.
That’s a great question. I had never flown until I was 17 and I’ve never liked it one bit. Back in 2009 and 2010 I flew several times while I was working out of state, and the anxiety wasn’t as bad as when I flew last month for the first time in 10 years.

Here’s something crazy for you… until a medical issue disqualified me, my life’s ambition was to be a U.S. Army Ranger. All Rangers must be Airborne qualified and successfully pass Jump School before they can even attend Ranger School. I always felt that I would be able get past my fear of flying if it meant I could achieve that goal. In my mind I thought I’d feel safer if I had my parachute.

I will say that my tolerance for heights is getting worse with age.
 
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That’s a great question. I had never flown until I was 17 and I’ve never liked it one bit. Back in 2009 and 2010 I flew several times while I was working out of state, and the anxiety wasn’t as bad as when I flew last month for the first time in 10 years.

Here’s something crazy for you… until a medical issue disqualified me, my life’s ambition was to be a U.S. Army Ranger. All Rangers must be Airborne qualified and successfully pass Jump School before they can even attend Ranger School. I always felt that I would be able get past my fear of flying if it meant I could achieve that goal. In my mind I thought I’d feel safer if I had my parachute.

I will say that my tolerance for heights is getting worse with age.
I always wanted to try sky diving but once I had kids, I did an about face on it. I actually wanted to be a flight attendant (stewardess in those days) because I absolutely loved flying and thought it would be such a glamorous job. I am afraid of water and can't swim, in high school I discovered you had to be able to swim, so that dream went out of the window....lol
 
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I wonder if fear of flying depends a lot on how old you are the first time you fly? When we moved to Canada, I was 9 years old, no fear whatsoever. My mother was a basket case on the flight (her first as well) and even that didn't bother me. I was more upset when my Spirograph wheels were spilled all over the floor and rolled under all the seats...lol I never did find the tiniest one.

I have a lot of other fears and am quite anxious but I wonder if I don't fear flying because of my age when I first went on a plane.
The Friday five - birthplace of otherwise never unearthed nuggets like caz’s tiny Spirograph wheel
 

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NeelyDan's Friday five:

1. No. I do not travel by air much at all.
2. Absolutely not. There are lots of unhappy rich people. "I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength." Phillipians 4:11-13.
3. yes. I have stolen lots of pens and pencils over the years etc. I had to repay the government a few times. I am square.
4. A toga party in college a'la Animal House. A Halloween party in college was actually better. (I briefly talked to a guy wearing a canucks "flying V" uniform for his costume. We both had a laugh about it) I am not a partier.
5.perfectionism. (yes, seriously.)
 
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1. No. I've never lived in fear of things I can't control.
2. If you are miserable. No amount of money will make you happy.
3. Yep. Lots of stuff. Not proud of it. My specialty was baseball cards at the local drug store. Never got caught.
4. New Years Eve, 1995 in Munich, Germany. Wife and I spent the evening traveling the city center, crashing parties everywhere we found them. Wonderful people. Warm and welcoming. I was fluent in German by the end of the evening. Took the train back to my parent's place at 2am. No idea how we got there.
5. Stoic silence.
After some thought, I'm changing my answer for #4. Can't believe I didn't think of this when I was typing my original response.

4. The absolute BEST party I ever went to, was when I met my wife. It was September 18, 1993. The Tomcat Ball at the Marriott Marquis in San Diego, CA. It was a blind date.

The Tomcat Ball was an annual formal event for all the Pacific F-14 squadrons. My original date cancelled 2 weeks before (long story), and I was planning on going stag. The week before, I was sitting at the O Club bar with another guy in my squadron, and he asked me who I was taking. I randomly replied "Nobody, why? Does your wife have any friends who want to go?" Next thing I know, I have a date and the rest is history.

The photo below was taken about 40 minutes after we met. It was one of those Prom kind of deals where you walk into the party and a photographer is at the front entrance taking everybody's picture. Alli and I both thought it was kinda weird to be posing since we barely knew each other, but we said "what the heck...." I'm so glad we did. She was a broke grad student, waitressing at night and looking for a free meal. She borrowed the dress from my buddy's wife. I wasn't looking for a serious relationship either, but fate had other ideas.

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After some thought, I'm changing my answer for #4. Can't believe I didn't think of this when I was typing my original response.

4. The absolute BEST party I ever went to, was when I met my wife. It was September 18, 1993. The Tomcat Ball at the Marriott Marquis in San Diego, CA. It was a blind date.

The Tomcat Ball was an annual formal event for all the Pacific F-14 squadrons. My original date cancelled the week before (long story), and I was planning on going stag. The week before, I was sitting at the O Club bar with another guy in my squadron, and he asked me who I was taking. I randomly replied "Nobody, why? Does your wife have any friends who want to go?" Next thing I know, I have a date and the rest is history.

The photo below was taken about 40 minutes after we met. It was one of those Prom kind of deals where you walk into the party and a photographer is at the front entrance taking everybody's picture. Alli and I both thought it was kinda weird to be posing since we barely knew each other, but we said "what the heck...." I'm so glad we did. She was a broke grad student, waitressing at night and looking for a free meal. She borrowed the dress from my buddy's wife. I wasn't looking for a serious relationship either, but fate had other ideas.

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I love this.

Best story I’ve heard in a while. Thank you for sharing this.
 

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I don’t *think* so - but I desperately fear flying to begin with so there’s a relationship there of some kind. Not being able to fly has been a pretty significant limiter for me. Perhaps @RoccoF14 can give me some tips.
I wish I had some nugget of wisdom to share to help you out Dan, but I really don't. Fear is something that each of us has to conquer on our own schedule.

I can say that I've had the shit scared out of me more times driving my car, than I've ever had on a commercial flight, if that helps.....In fact, the closest I've ever come to dying, as a civilian, was driving home from work.
 

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After some thought, I'm changing my answer for #4. Can't believe I didn't think of this when I was typing my original response.

4. The absolute BEST party I ever went to, was when I met my wife. It was September 18, 1993. The Tomcat Ball at the Marriott Marquis in San Diego, CA. It was a blind date.

The Tomcat Ball was an annual formal event for all the Pacific F-14 squadrons. My original date cancelled 2 weeks before (long story), and I was planning on going stag. The week before, I was sitting at the O Club bar with another guy in my squadron, and he asked me who I was taking. I randomly replied "Nobody, why? Does your wife have any friends who want to go?" Next thing I know, I have a date and the rest is history.

The photo below was taken about 40 minutes after we met. It was one of those Prom kind of deals where you walk into the party and a photographer is at the front entrance taking everybody's picture. Alli and I both thought it was kinda weird to be posing since we barely knew each other, but we said "what the heck...." I'm so glad we did. She was a broke grad student, waitressing at night and looking for a free meal. She borrowed the dress from my buddy's wife. I wasn't looking for a serious relationship either, but fate had other ideas.

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Mother of Christ are you guys an attractive couple holy hell
 

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4. What was the best party you've ever been to? What happened there?

When we were in Brussels we were drinking in the Grand Place and met a group of Belgian young ladies, got to talking, and spend the night partying with them around the city. Totally random but some great times. We ended up going back another weekend and hung out again, one of them and my friend hit it off and dated for a year-ish. Maybe a @Mione134 cousin?


I've got cousins primarily in Liege and Brussels so it's a possibility lol
 

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NeelyDan's Friday Five, Peach Whiskey Hangover Edition:

1. Has the threat of 'terrorism' ever changed your travel plans? Is it something you dwell on while you travel?
2. Do you think 10 million dollars could buy you happiness? Think about the specific wording of this question.
3. Have you ever stolen anything? Tell us about it. CLEANSE THYSELF, MY LOVES,
4. What was the best party you've ever been to? What happened there?
5. What would you say is your most prominent defense mechanism?

1. Never. No it isn't. I pay closer attention when I'm in a crowd but that's about it.
2. No but it could definitely buy peace of mind.
3. I am a pen thief. If I use a pen & like it chances are very good you will never see it again.
4. Best party? Actually it was a 3 day Fourth of July party at my BFF's in Maine. Great company, great food & drink and a midnight boat ride around the lake to watch the neighbors set off their fireworks. One guy had about $50000 worth of fireworks synchronized to music. It was really cool to see the boats with only their red & green navigation lights on make their way around & across the lake in the dark.
5. I either go passive aggressive or nuclear.
 

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1. Has the threat of 'terrorism' ever changed your travel plans? Is it something you dwell on while you travel?

I have always hated NYC which is closest to us. Now I am even less inclined to go there

2. Do you think 10 million dollars could buy you happiness? Think about the specific wording of this question.

As a stress relief and being able to do what I want....heck yeah. I would be at our soon to be built house in Maine fishing every day possible while my bride paddle boards with our Cavalier. Also would take of my daughter and son.

3. Have you ever stolen anything? Tell us about it. CLEANSE THYSELF, MY LOVES,

Not on purpose, the typical wow they forgot to charge me for this item

4. What was the best party you've ever been to? What happened there?

OMG....here we go and it's not even close.

Our wedding reception. It was at a venue on the Hudson River that also had a petting zoo (that comes in later)

A centerpiece caught on fire, we put it out with beer. I broke my toasting glass stem....we faked it

So everyone was feeling no pain, and at the end there was a traveling karaoke guy who was scheduled to play there.....we decided to stay there and drink since the venue said if we stayed free drinks for the wedding party all night.

Our drinks of the night were Mind Erasers and Kamikazes. The karaoke guy had everyone dancing and singing. During American Pie, my brides friend had mini flags up her nose leading the way.


I looked over at the bar...Brides cousin sitting at the bar...with a goat he had brought in from the petting zoo that he decided should join the party.

Several of my friends said they had to stop and (you know) before they could even make it to the hotel.

My new FIL had to stop along the road and fell down a bank. New MIL and SIL had to flag down a motorcycle group at 3 AM to help get him back in the car. He spent the night sleeping in his tux in the front yard since he couldn't make it into the house.

I told the bride the next day I don't even remember driving to the hotel which was very close....she said....you didn't.

Next day drove to Bar Harbor. Stopped in Bath Maine where I learned I can't eat Maine clams...barely made it to our room where I spent the entire night with my butt in the can and my face in the sink. Good thing they were very close together. It was flying both ends. Still can't eat Maine clams and have given up.

Celebrating 30 years next August, and moving to Maine 2025

5. What would you say is your most prominent defense mechanism?

Not getting drawn in
Oh how I love mind erasers!
That’s quite a reception!
 
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After some thought, I'm changing my answer for #4. Can't believe I didn't think of this when I was typing my original response.

4. The absolute BEST party I ever went to, was when I met my wife. It was September 18, 1993. The Tomcat Ball at the Marriott Marquis in San Diego, CA. It was a blind date.

The Tomcat Ball was an annual formal event for all the Pacific F-14 squadrons. My original date cancelled 2 weeks before (long story), and I was planning on going stag. The week before, I was sitting at the O Club bar with another guy in my squadron, and he asked me who I was taking. I randomly replied "Nobody, why? Does your wife have any friends who want to go?" Next thing I know, I have a date and the rest is history.

The photo below was taken about 40 minutes after we met. It was one of those Prom kind of deals where you walk into the party and a photographer is at the front entrance taking everybody's picture. Alli and I both thought it was kinda weird to be posing since we barely knew each other, but we said "what the heck...." I'm so glad we did. She was a broke grad student, waitressing at night and looking for a free meal. She borrowed the dress from my buddy's wife. I wasn't looking for a serious relationship either, but fate had other ideas.

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Kismet!
 

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NeelyDan's Friday Five, Peach Whiskey Hangover Edition:

1. Has the threat of 'terrorism' ever changed your travel plans? Is it something you dwell on while you travel?
2. Do you think 10 million dollars could buy you happiness? Think about the specific wording of this question.
3. Have you ever stolen anything? Tell us about it. CLEANSE THYSELF, MY LOVES,
4. What was the best party you've ever been to? What happened there?
5. What would you say is your most prominent defense mechanism?
1. No...I am a minimalist packer....almost to a fault. Although I consider what shoes to wear on a plane since you have to take them off.
2. Hell f**king yeah!! If you don't think money can't buy happiness you don't know where to shop...j/k ( sorta)
3. I plead the fifth.
4. New Years Eve in Scotland....barefoot outside a pub singing Auld Lang Syne... Newcastle Brown will do that to ya...
5. Silence....or biting sarcasm
 

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I wonder if fear of flying depends a lot on how old you are the first time you fly? When we moved to Canada, I was 9 years old, no fear whatsoever. My mother was a basket case on the flight (her first as well) and even that didn't bother me. I was more upset when my Spirograph wheels were spilled all over the floor and rolled under all the seats...lol I never did find the tiniest one.

I have a lot of other fears and am quite anxious but I wonder if I don't fear flying because of my age when I first went on a plane.

When I was a kid I called the window seat.

Not anymore. I get quite nervous.

Everything about air travel has been a mess for at least twenty years. I'm glad I don't do much of it anymore.
 
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1. No...I am a minimalist packer....almost to a fault. Although I consider what shoes to wear on a plane since you have to take them off.
2. Hell f**king yeah!! If you don't think money can't buy happiness you don't know where to shop...j/k ( sorta)
3. I plead the fifth.
4. New Years Eve in Scotland....barefoot outside a pub singing Auld Lang Syne... Newcastle Brown will do that to ya...
5. Silence....or biting sarcasm
That is awesome!
 
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