@MasterMatt25 , Wait, so what we are talking about, when talking about a 17 year old getting drafted is what he said to another kid when he was like 4-10 years old? Ok, if there is a child who hear some slanderous derogatory comment, then I can see why the kid needed to be consoled. But this begs the question: why is what another kid did when he was a CHILD relevant right now? Children who are pre-pubescent are notorious for mimicking other people. Holding someone accountable for what they said as a CHILD, and brandishing them with the consequences of what they said as a CHILD for the rest of their lives is some dystopian shit!
Even if he said it when he was 11-13 it would be borderline give me a break ... kids say stupid shit everyday largely out of ignorance and from copying other people. Most people period say stupid shit and are ignorant.
I thought this was being brought up a relevant reason not to draft someone as a young adult, so I assumed that this was said when the kid was like 14-17 years of age, where the young person should be responsible for their own actions.
I'm super disappointed in how people around her show a complete lack of tolerance for indiscretions other people make. I'm no Christian, but like Jesus said, let he who is without sin cast the first stone. I can bet everyone of you have done something in your life that you either regret, are ashamed of as an adult, or find supremely cringeworthy with time. Even the Beastie Boys regret a whole album they did when they were 17-19 years oldish (License to Ill) and which they call cringeworthy, and if you listen to the lyrics you'll know why. Still great album, but I totally understand why they would be embarrassed as it it is juvenile. The legal system won't even publish the names of juvenile murders because until 18 they aren't viewed as fully responsible for their actions. And parents who bought guns for their child who later went out and shot up his school were themselves sentenced to prison for 15 years because they are very much responsible for their CHILD!
But that is the point, isn't it? People here are talking about a SUPER juvenile age where children learn things like language, justice, ethics, etc. Anyone who condemns a person for the rest of their life for what they did as a pre-pubescent CHILD, unless this child is demonstrating psychopathic of sociopathic tendencies, is someone who I would prefer not thinking they have the moral high ground in society, and let them know that they are no better than this puritanical fools who made Hester Prynn wear the Scarlet Letter, or teachers or adults who perform corporal punishment on children period. Because humans can learn and they can feel regret, and they can transform.
If you think a 17 year old shouldn't get drafted because of something they did when they were 7 years old (I have no clue what age he was), then you are a jerk.
And yes, I am a minority who has been slandered and subject to derogatory comments based on my ethnicity and other physical features. People in sports say stupid shit all the time. One of the biggest let downs in Zinedine Zidane's career is he let some jerks derogatory comments about his sister provoke him into a red card just before when Zidane could have won the cup for France. Now, we all hate rats on the ice, but rats are there to get people off their game. That is why when you hear stupid shit on the ice, you ignore it. You can report it to the ref ... or to you parents ... or to the league. But taking it to heart and acting on it just gives in to the bully.
@Schooner Guy , if you think that is victim blaming, then well, maybe it is. Maybe people make themselves in to victims sometimes. The best way to deal with a bully is to laugh and walk away. Not to show them that they achieved what they wanted to achieve.
Oh, and I was a semi-pro athlete, just saying
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@le_sean , you know that derogatory comments can be made to anyone, right? You know that 50% of our population is women, and women constantly get derogatory comments, right?