No, I am not saying that. And in fact, the team got fined as part of what happened on the field.
Listen, if you want to admit you don't understand the difference between refusing to vacate the field while yelling at the ref after a red card was given and confirmed and what happened in the City game, that's fine, just own it. For what it's worth, I would have been fine suspending Haaland for his social media post, too.
If players were getting suspended for every time they surround the ref, that would be a different scenario. But they aren't. What Haaland did on the field happens in a ton of matches. He, and a couple other City players, should have gotten yellows for it. But to equate that to Van Dijk getting carded, going at the ref during the VAR check, refusing to leave the pitch, and continuing to abuse the ref is asinine.