He made a mistake. A horrible, horrible mistake and one that I'm sure he probably wishes he had never made. I will never defend the action.
But let's be reasonable here: people can change. The Kobe Bryant post-incident was not the same Kobe pre-incident. He became a very dedicated father and wanted nothing more than to be involved in his daughter's lives post-basketball.
You and I probably won't agree on him, but Kobe is my guy. I believe in second chances and IMO Kobe made the most of his second chance.
He parlayed his "mistake" into a marketing opportunity. Even before the incident in question I didn't like the guy. And he never suffered any discernible consequences for it either. If anything, he earned even more blind adulation.
Anyway, I don't wish to pollute these forums with my usual spiels. You're right, we're not going to come to a consensus here, but I appreciate the civil discussion.