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So her husband not wanting to spank her or pull her hair during dilly dally has her cheating on him.....I hope she isn't married to an OJ Simpson type...

 
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So her husband not wanting to spank her or pull her hair during dilly dally has her cheating on him.....I hope she isn't married to an OJ Simpson type...


"She wants more" is a great description of a sometimes misunderstood fight for equality :laugh:
 
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So her husband not wanting to spank her or pull her hair during dilly dally has her cheating on him.....I hope she isn't married to an OJ Simpson type...

I cannot stand people like this. Lying POS.
No issues if they have an open relationship, consenting adults can do whatever...but if your rocking burner phones its probably wrong.
 
I cannot stand people like this. Lying POS.
No issues if they have an open relationship, consenting adults can do whatever...but if your rocking burner phones its probably wrong.
As a single older man dating again .....these "attached" jezebels are more prevalent and sophisticated at their craft. My cousin got burned by a few bc he was thinking with his other head. One dude punctured his tires and got a hold of him on the phone and threatened to cut his throat if he didn't stop putting the blocks to his wife. He had no clue she was married...they were dating for 6 months.
 
As a single older man dating again .....these "attached" jezebels are more prevalent and sophisticated at their craft. My cousin got burned by a few bc he was thinking with his other head. One dude punctured his tires and got a hold of him on the phone and threatened to cut his throat if he didn't stop putting the blocks to his wife. He had no clue she was married...they were dating for 6 months.

The wronged dude had the wrong target. When it comes to a love "triangle," it's the person in the middle who is primarily to blame, not the other man/woman. I've never cheated on a partner, but I've been the other man countless times - and I've been cheated on - so I've seen romantic dynamics from every angle (including open relationships).

Anymore, I'm not really concerned with pursuing/having/maintaining a relationship. If a woman wants to be with me - great. When she doesn't - great. What I won't do anymore is be the "other guy." I know how shitty it is to be cheated upon, and no matter how much of an asshole that dude may be, if she is in a relationship/married, I take a pass.

Now, once she's separated or divorced...
 
Honestly don't know when or even if I'll be in another relationship just because of being burned so many times. I have like basically no ability to trust at this point and even if there was an element of loneliness due to lack of companionship having someone around you don't trust and just are waiting for it to blow-up isn't a fulfilling experience anyway.

A lot of days I get why some people just go off and live in seclusion by themselves.
 
The wronged dude had the wrong target. When it comes to a love "triangle," it's the person in the middle who is primarily to blame, not the other man/woman. I've never cheated on a partner, but I've been the other man countless times - and I've been cheated on - so I've seen romantic dynamics from every angle (including open relationships).

Anymore, I'm not really concerned with pursuing/having/maintaining a relationship. If a woman wants to be with me - great. When she doesn't - great. What I won't do anymore is be the "other guy." I know how shitty it is to be cheated upon, and no matter how much of an asshole that dude may be, if she is in a relationship/married, I take a pass.

Now, once she's separated or divorced...
Somehow I have avoided perilous love triangles. I've come close but my radar has served me well so far. Hoping there isn't a first. Never cheated either..suspect one gf did but can't prove it. Gut instinct when getting intimate upon her return from a trip to a hedonistic Greek isle with high powered career women friends like herself. Pretty sure she had some "gyro" inserted in her...

Current person I am seeing seems too good to be true but will just let nature run its course but the radar is still pinging..
 
The wronged dude had the wrong target. When it comes to a love "triangle," it's the person in the middle who is primarily to blame, not the other man/woman. I've never cheated on a partner, but I've been the other man countless times - and I've been cheated on - so I've seen romantic dynamics from every angle (including open relationships).

Anymore, I'm not really concerned with pursuing/having/maintaining a relationship. If a woman wants to be with me - great. When she doesn't - great. What I won't do anymore is be the "other guy." I know how shitty it is to be cheated upon, and no matter how much of an asshole that dude may be, if she is in a relationship/married, I take a pass.

Now, once she's separated or divorced...
Yea what a moron. Kick the girl out. Move on. People just have a hard time facing facts.

You have a very normal, healthy, mature take my man. I'm married, but I've told my wife before, if you want out, just say it. Not going to waste time on jealousy or sunk costs.

A lot of days I get why some people just go off and live in seclusion by themselves.
Every time I watch Avengers Infinity War/Endgame, I find myself rooting for Thanos lol.
 
Somehow I have avoided perilous love triangles. I've come close but my radar has served me well so far. Hoping there isn't a first. Never cheated either..suspect one gf did but can't prove it. Gut instinct when getting intimate upon her return from a trip to a hedonistic Greek isle with high powered career women friends like herself. Pretty sure she had some "gyro" inserted in her...

Current person I am seeing seems too good to be true but will just let nature run its course but the radar is still pinging..

Funny you mentioned this. One thing I have found every single time it happens is that if I am at the beginning of a relationship with a woman, if she goes on a trip, or already had a trip planned, within the first couple of months, the relationship never works out. In fact, most of my "relationships" encounter this dynamic. It's odd. It's not from any full-court press or aloof distancing on my part, just a weird, inexplicable trajectory.

I suppose it's a matter of personal happiness. I don't rely on anyone but myself for my happiness. I only allow others into my life who add to it.
 
Funny you mentioned this. One thing I have found every single time it happens is that if I am at the beginning of a relationship with a woman, if she goes on a trip, or already had a trip planned, within the first couple of months, the relationship never works out. In fact, most of my "relationships" encounter this dynamic. It's odd. It's not from any full-court press or aloof distancing on my part, just a weird, inexplicable trajectory.

I suppose it's a matter of personal happiness. I don't rely on anyone but myself for my happiness. I only allow others into my life who add to it.
Yeah it was preplanned before we met or so she said...

Not to get too specific but when somebody with an insatiable libido all of the sudden acts coy upon their return and your first intimate act since her return...well that screams guilty! Must be some primordial instinct to know when the woman you are with has been unfaithful. To this day I remember that moment...never felt that instinct of infidelity ever again. I'm glad I bailed on her not too much longer after that...she wanted me to be her weenie husband while she wore the pants. Typical sex in the city type career woman...
 
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Every time I watch Avengers Infinity War/Endgame, I find myself rooting for Thanos lol.
I was just talking to Girl about this. Thanos was such a good villain because of this. Obviously what he wanted to do was horrible but what made him so captivating was WHY he wanted to do it. He wasn't some shallow conquerer.

All the best villains are like that. The Joker is another obvious example in that he isn't just another conquerer (of a city in this case)

There is no point to this post
 
I was just talking to Girl about this. Thanos was such a good villain because of this. Obviously what he wanted to do was horrible but what made him so captivating was WHY he wanted to do it. He wasn't some shallow conquerer.

All the best villains are like that. The Joker is another obvious example in that he isn't just another conquerer (of a city in this case)

There is no point to this post
Yea, the world is really grey. Despite "the movies" best efforts the black hat and white hats don't really exist.

Grosse Pointe Blank is one of my favorite movies of all time, because I relate to Martin Blank a bit. His rationalization scene with Mini Driver later is outstanding IMO.
 
Yeah it was preplanned before we met or so she said...

Not to get too specific but when somebody with an insatiable libido all of the sudden acts coy upon their return and your first intimate act since her return...well that screams guilty! Must be some prehistoric instinct to know when the woman you are with has been unfaithful. To this day I remember that moment...never felt that instinct of infidelity ever again. I'm glad I bailed on her not too much longer after that...she wanted me to be her weenie husband while she wore the pants. Typical sex in the city type career woman...

In my younger years, I would cater to this type, bending over backwards to keep the relationship. Most of these women, in my experience, are narcissists, or at least demonstrate that behavior, and they feed off of that and make you miserable. It was only after looking at my relationships as objectively as possible and seeing the patterns did I realize I won't ever go through that again. When I notice the woman I am seeing start to display those patterns, I put my foot down and lay down the law. They may be big shots in their respective boardrooms, but, that shit won't fly with me and I make sure, without a shadow of a doubt, the message is clear and that they are out the door if they don't straighten up. Now, I know this may sound like some toxic macho bullshit, but it's really not. I have boundaries, just like she has boundaries. If either of those boundaries get crossed, the sooner they are addressed and corrected, the better. If she keeps slipping, I begin to detach, and, soon after, I'm out.

Single and content beats coupled and miserable every time.
 
In my younger years, I would cater to this type, bending over backwards to keep the relationship. Most of these women, in my experience, are narcissists, or at least demonstrate that behavior, and they feed off of that and make you miserable. It was only after looking at my relationships as objectively as possible and seeing the patterns did I realize I won't ever go through that again. When I notice the woman I am seeing start to display those patterns, I put my foot down and lay down the law. They may be big shots in their respective boardrooms, but, that shit won't fly with me and I make sure, without a shadow of a doubt, the message is clear and that they are out the door if they don't straighten up. Now, I know this may sound like some toxic macho bullshit, but it's really not. I have boundaries, just like she has boundaries. If either of those boundaries get crossed, the sooner they are addressed and corrected, the better. If she keeps slipping, I begin to detach, and, soon after, I'm out.

Single and content beats coupled and miserable every time.

Oh I totally get it...believe you me. My tolerance level for those types is pretty much nonexistent these days...

Having boundaries with those types is essential..Like they say ..the man who wins the game is the one who won't play the game in the first place.

I remember with her specifically telling her whenever she would try to be manipulatively clever that I was aware and "taking notes." I remember also when she basically tried to rope me into marrying her by saying crap or get off the pot ...and me getting off the pot...that she lamented that "she came close" ...lol....wtf!
 
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