I have no problem with people filing charges for abuse.
But from what I've read, third degree assault is categorized by "pain/injury." That, in its truest form, has no definition as to the level of pain. And as we all have different thresholds of pain, these types of cases are so hard to predict, and really judge when there are no witnesses.
What I do have a problem with, is when people seek civil suits, or financial gain. I find it tends to weaken their position in my view. Its no longer a person seeking just justice, but more a way to gain financially.
In my opinion, civil suits really only should be brought on when you can CLEARLY identify a financial loss caused by what has occurred. If someone can point out to me how in this situation, the GF is set to lose financially from this alleged assault, Id love to hear it.
And no, losing out Varly's money/allowance as his gf does not count as there is no financial obligation from him to her.
If you've been wrong, fight for your justice.
If your wrongings have caused you financial losses, or future financial losses, by all means, fight for it.
I just dont see it here.