My kid played hockey and soccer. At 14, he was asked to play on a top end U16 soccer team. Registration was $1500, plus a $500 tournament fee. It started out being a 1 1/2 hour drive, 3x a week, for practices and home games, as well as a 2- 3 hour road game a week, from May-October. The next year they started talking about college scouts, and wanted him to make the trip twice a week, all winter, to their indoor soccer facilities. Another $750! We would drive 90 minutes every Sunday morning for a 2 hour practice, grab a bite to eat, he would sleep on the 90 minute drive home, and we would grab his equipment for a Sunday afternoon hockey game
At 16, he got an invite to the White Caps Academy, and was told they wanted him there for 3 practices a week. He had also been invited to a Junior B prospect camp. He could no longer balance both. I looked at the chances of a soccer scholarship, and pushed him that direction. I pointed out how much my wife's cousin loved playing soccer at an American college. He chose the hockey camp. In the end, sports never led to wealth or prosperity, but he made a lot of great friends, and we had a ton of fond memories