What purpose does losing that extra however many pounds have other than self-actualization? And if you need to force yourself to be self-actualized are you actually self-actualized? Or is there some model chick you want to date that only dates 10s and you're currently a 9.5?
That’s kinda why I don’t cleanup my diet, and I kudos you for saying it. I’m of the same mind. My girl thinks I’m attractive, I can still run and do spartan races and all that good stuff, and I’m strong. To me, I am self actualized. Yes, I’d love to have a Hollywood body, but the fact is I enjoy the balance between working out hard and eating like a crazed Viking conqueror equally as much. I’m fulfilled.