There were several players in late 2000s/early 2010s who signed for way less than market dictated. Manny Malhotra signed for pennies when he was a top FO player in league In a bottom 6 role.
Also, UFA is not the only way a team becomes a “destination.” There were quite a few players who waived their limited NTCs to land in SJ when they were pretty sought after: Heatley and Guerin to name a couple.
I’m sure I’m forgetting others, too. But yeah, they were a destination.
If Manny Malholtra is the best San Jose gets attracting difference makers for their being a “destination” I’m not sure that is proving your point very well. Especially considering the highest profile UFA signings in the last decade were an aging Paul Martin (for a bit of an overpay with a year more than should have been needed) and a similar situation in Joel Ward. Hardly the cream of the crop.
In regards to the trades, it’s not like those players have the pick of any team to determine where they land - in Heatley’s case, it’s not like the entire league lined up to pay the cost and he chose San Jose. Likely he was given a small handful of teams and chose as he did for his own reasons.
Additionally, immediate exits by Guerin, Campbell, and before that Belfour doesn’t exactly paint a picture of a destination franchise.
My point being, I’m not sure one could really argue Wilson had his pick of top players to sign at team friendly deals and didn’t take advantage which is what your original post implies. There’s plenty to knock Wilson for on his recent stewardship of the org without pretending this is one of them. In so much as you could credit San Jose for being a destination, you’d also have to grant Wilson credit for making it so with the success he presided over and the way he has run the org and treated players (again, I personally wouldn’t make the case SJ is a destination franchise.)