Yes I second your post. I think after all is said and done and we got multiple "views" on what happend, I don't think there was one specific plan or agenda. I honestly don't think that when he was drafted, the McGroarty camp got together and they crafted this crazy strategy of first acting like the Jets are the best that could happen for Rutger and then, once everyone believed him, they would STAB THEM OUT OF THE DARK AND RUN ... or so. They got drafted, they overhandled the "act as professional and positive for the media as you can"-part a little bit (note to everyone else getting drafted after him: sure, say nice things about the team and city but don't literally say they were your favorite team growing up if that wasn't the case lol) and then ... things changed.
A peer colleague close to him showed how "easily" you can force what you want, the entire Winnipeg experience I think wasn't that overwhelmingly awesome after all (I guess you can't blame him from a neutral POV for that), then the Jets didn't give him games after being free, did not sign him and burn a year ELC and during that time his personal life probably also changed (throw in being in love with someone that isn't necessarily looking to move to Manitoba, Canada) ... and you end up having a kid not wanting to sign. How do you communicate that? It's not one thing, it's not two things, it's-... the entire thing. The entire thing "doesn't feel right" because, on many different small levels, it's not what I wish for my life to be right now and looking in the future for the next 2-3 years.
Now, there is no point in making these points public. People are going to draw their own conclusions anyway. They will paint a picture of you being a psychopathic asshole (literally what not just one person here said about him lol) anyway so... don't make it even worse. Just say "it's not it" or "it doesn't feel right" and keep it to yourself. How many people tell that to someone very close to them because they want to end a relationship but there is no point going into detail because you don't want to keep on seeing/dating that person. Don't want to start getting serious with that person. Going into details would only make things worse. It would hurt. There is no need to hurt anybody... Just say "you don't feel it". This is pretty much exactly what happend... and whatever, it's okay. The only thing Rutger is to blame for is way overacting the "Winnipeg Jets were my favorite team growing up"-part. That was just silly after all. Imagine starting to date a new person you tell that person on the second date that you'd love her/him. And then, 3 dates later, you realized that you were just overecstatic about the entire situation of having met someone new. That person is to blame for saying something like that. Just as much as Rutger is to blame (and I am sure he'd accept that blame right now and agreeing about that being a bit stupid after all) for saying the equivalent to "I love you" as a draft prospect.
Once the entire thing is through, nobody will care about the actual reasons after all. Sure they will boo you when you play there but whatever, that's life as a sports professional. They will forget about it eventually in a couple of years.
And that's it. You got what you wanted, they got something. You don't have to care weather or not it is going to be good enough or not, that's not your problem.
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